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Apr 24 2005, 09:01 AM
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is it right to go behind a gf/bf's back to find out the truth about something? i know that it is always best to ask, but what if they dont tell u the truth? do you think its a bit wrong to be sneaky and go behind their back to find something out?
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Apr 25 2005, 06:43 PM
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they'll feel bad that you didnt trust them. you could say "if you dont tell me the truth, im gonna go behind your back and find out"...but not so bluntly....at least you'll have given them a heads up and they cant be angry about it when you do.
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SpedMonkee going behind their back Apr 24 2005, 09:01 AM
EmmalieV I would do it , but watch out if they find out. Apr 24 2005, 09:37 AM
Shattered_Hope It's always better to confront the situation..... Apr 24 2005, 11:17 AM
blondisnirvana If they are obviously lying I would try to find ou... Apr 24 2005, 11:39 AM
mouse_3k Yah, u just wanna find the truth and if they dont ... Apr 24 2005, 11:45 AM
mzkandi The truth has a way of coming out, but i will say ... Apr 24 2005, 12:14 PM
iheartsimba No, it's not wrong. If you really need to find... Apr 24 2005, 12:20 PM
silver rain Well, if confronting them about it doesn't wor... Apr 24 2005, 12:29 PM
misz_ica well wouldn't they tell you the truth if you a... Apr 24 2005, 12:35 PM
xlaydee_v lols. sometimes it's okay.. but don't let ... Apr 24 2005, 01:57 PM
--x who0ps well.. i guess it would be bad.
but then it really... Apr 24 2005, 04:54 PM
SpedMonkee well its becoming more than just going to his hous... Apr 24 2005, 06:53 PM
aera if they are lying, try to find out. if it seems ba... Apr 24 2005, 10:03 PM
Chii it really depends...like if it's a present and... Apr 24 2005, 10:10 PM
SpedMonkee and thats the thing, i do trust her, which is why ... Apr 25 2005, 04:47 AM
cHuNsAbAbIe012 its not good to go behind their back. i believe th... Apr 25 2005, 05:18 PM
Szeh I do it for fun. I call her a whore in front of my... Apr 25 2005, 05:24 PM
__PASS10NAT3 If you really love someone, you should trust and b... Apr 25 2005, 06:16 PM
pinayprincess NO BUT THEN AGAIN, WHAT IS THE POINT OF HAVING A R... Apr 25 2005, 06:24 PM
Shortiiex it's wrong ot have no trust....but you have fi... Apr 25 2005, 08:29 PM
onemanshow well.. its up to u.. i mean.. go behind her / his ... Apr 26 2005, 12:39 PM
xMyStIcShAd0wSx i dont think its wrong. you have to find out the t... Apr 26 2005, 01:04 PM
iNyCxShoRT it`s better to ask them, and if they lie i say... Apr 29 2005, 11:08 AM![]() ![]() |