i hate my mom, why? Options

[ix3youx33]

i hate my f**king mom she has total control over me like she owns me or something or i'm like her lil pet that she could do whatever he wants with me.. she freakin abuses me and makes a promise and breaks them.. i ran away once but my friends f**king mom caught me at their house and called my parents damnit..I HATE HER SO f**king MUCH... she gets mad at every single little thing whenever i'm on the phone she always pick up the othetr one and says hang up shes busy i mean like wtf right? whats her problem i need freedom i'm not a little kid anymore i'm a teenager for christs sake and whenver i'm with my boyfriend harrison shes all like talking to me in chinese saying like lets go stop talking and shit i mean like f**k and my b days coming up in like 4 days and she won't even let me decide what i wanna do i mean its my birthday that days about me not you i mean like aren't i right? like i wouldn't tell my mom she can't go eat dinner on her birthday she has to go to the movies with me like i wouldn't do that i should be able to do what i wanna do and invite the people i wanna invite on my birthday

[jordanriane]

1. Stop acting like such a brat. It sounds as if though you have a supportive family (mother).
2. There is no need to run away, it's stupid and you're going to do yourself more harm then needed.
3. You need to realize that you are young. You have freedom, but you do not have freedom. Until you are legal and you move out from your mother, you have to live with her.
4. One day you're going to look back on this and you will think of yourself as an idiot, believe me.
5. You need to chill, just because your mom does not allow you to do simple things, does not mean you should hate her.

You haven't even graduated from eighth grade yet and you think you're old enough to do what you please, have any freedom you want, and have total control of your own life? Come on now, think realistic. You can't even drive yet, nor are you even a teenager. You're growing, your young and your mom is protecting you.

You'll be thankful for your mother when you're older. You'll realize that she only does what she does because she loves you. Who cares if she wants you off the phone--don't fight it, just get off and deal with it. THat's life, and if you don't like it, well, oh well, you'll have to deal with it. Nothing can ever be your way 100%.

I'd also suggest not running away again. Should your mom decide to call the police, she has the option for you to go to an audi house. You do not want to go that route.

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

1. Stop acting like such a brat. It sounds as if though you have a supportive family (mother).
2. There is no need to run away, it's stupid and you're going to do yourself more harm then needed.
3. You need to realize that you are young. You have freedom, but you do not have freedom. Until you are legal and you move out from your mother, you have to live with her.
4. One day you're going to look back on this and you will think of yourself as an idiot, believe me.
5. You need to chill, just because your mom does not allow you to do simple things, does not mean you should hate her.

You  haven't even graduated from eighth grade yet and you think you're old enough to do what you please, have any freedom you want, and have total control of your own life? Come on now, think realistic. You can't even drive yet, nor are you even a teenager. You're growing, your young and your mom is protecting you.

You'll be thankful for your mother when you're older. You'll realize that she only does what she does because she loves you. Who cares if she wants you off the phone--don't fight it, just get off and deal with it. THat's life, and if you don't like it, well, oh well, you'll have to deal with it. Nothing can ever be your way 100%.

I'd also suggest not running away again. Should your mom decide to call the police, she has the option for you to go to an audi house. You do not want to go that route.

1. she is not acting like a brat. her mom is pushing her to her limit.
2. running away can actually help. they may start to realize they need to start LISTENING to her instead of ONLY telling her wat to do.
3. i agree with u on this one but still it looks like her parents need to do some changing in attitude also.
4. this has happened to me n yes i might have been idiotic but at least it made my parents be more lenient n understanding n they actually LISTENED.
5. she should chill but its kinda hard to wen your parents just keep pushing your limit you know? it's the SIMPLE things that count.

her mom maybe doing this to protect her but she cant protect her forever this is something that her MOTHER needs to realize. she may be only in eighth grade but this is the way u feel at her age. n i dont think she has her way EVER. i think that was the whole point of this topic in the first place. i mean...wat kind of mother or father doesnt let u have the bday party u want? i mean maybe its not your first choice n they tell you WHY u cant have that kind of party but her mom just wont let her have it cuz her mom wants to do it HER way. not for her child's sake. that's just stupid.

[jordanriane]

1. she is not acting like a brat. her mom is pushing her to her limit.
2. running away can actually help. they may start to realize they need to start LISTENING to her instead of ONLY telling her wat to do.
3. i agree with u on this one but still it looks like her parents need to do some changing in attitude also.
4. this has happened to me n yes i might have been idiotic but at least it made my parents be more lenient n understanding n they actually LISTENED.
5. she should chill but its kinda hard to wen your parents just keep pushing your limit you know? it's the SIMPLE things that count.

her mom maybe doing this to protect her but she cant protect her forever this is something that her MOTHER needs to realize. she may be only in eighth grade but this is the way u feel at her age. n i dont think she has her way EVER. i think that was the whole point of this topic in the first place. i mean...wat kind of mother or father doesnt let u have the bday party u want? i mean maybe its not your first choice n they tell you WHY u cant have that kind of party but her mom just wont let her have it cuz her mom wants to do it HER way. not for her child's sake. that's just stupid.

She's 11, she does not need to worry about her limit being pushed. That's what makes her a brat, by complaining about little things that an 11 year old should not worry about.

If she was born in 1993, she is not in eigth grade, she is in sixth grade (or even fifth).

The point of the thread was for us to agree and sympathize with her actions. Did you see how she disregarded the advice given to her? It wasn't what she wanted to her, and was also the truth, thus showing a little more of her bratty side.

It's a birthday party she's whining about. A simple little birthday party. We do not know details, and it's not something to run away from home about. She's not getting her way, so she's being a dramatical baby about it.

I'm sorry, but what you wrote, shows me that you lack a bit of common sense.
You're a few months older then I, yet you have the mentality of someone quite younger. It's sad that you think that her ordeal and behavior is appropriate, and that her whining about a birthday party is okay for her to do.