Keep the friendship? Options

[lilpimpette]

Ok, my best friend is Raquel, we have been b.f.f's for 4 years now. I don't even know why I call her my best friend. We go to different schools, but still keep in touch on the phone.

Anytime we are talking on the phone, she always makes up some stupid excuse to hang up. I feel she doesn't want to talk to me anymore.
It also bugs me that whenever I tell her a story (like once were my personal items were stolen in school) she would either be quiet and not say anything or she would change the subject.
It happens all the time, and she is VERY immature. She acts like she is 2 yrs old!!! She makes these really annoying sounds and acts all crazy.
I am also bothered about her making fun of other people and what they look like, when I resemble that person she is making fun of!

I have tried to tell her that I don't want to be dealing with this all the time, but once again she changes the subject.

Help

[kryzcoak47luv666]

I say forget about her, you both seem to be on 2 different pages and it doesn't seem like either of you actually want to talk like mature young adults.

I've had the same problem, my best friend of like 9 years moved away like 3 years ago, and when she came back, she acted really stupid and talked bad about people that were my friends now, and I used to tell her you don't know them and you have no place to say anything bad, and yeah we used to argue, and I found out a lot of stuff about her, that she was a really bad pothead and she was compulsively cheating on my best friend and I just let her go, and I didn't want anymore to do with her, and then she tried to fix things up but by then it was too late.

People change, and there's nothing you can do to stop that, and they can onl change if they want to, so with that being said if you both really feel like this friend ship is worth saving then by all means save it, if not, 4get about it, and move on...