mom problems, don't know what to do.. Options

[banana_jamma]

Yesterday at my basketball game I got angry because I was playing bad..so my mom thought I was angry at everyone else. She said it was embarassing so she left me at the gym in the middle of my game. She made me go home with my dad. I was suppose to go with her. She was gone the whole day yesterday. So..
this morning when I woke up I tried talking to her and she kept it small like I could tell she was angry. So we actually start talking. She was talking about her friend going to law school. My brother and I ask why she didn't go because she said she was jealous her friend got to go. SO SHE JUST GOES OFF ON ME! She says that she is never appreciated by my whole family, how she does all the work, how we are ungrateful, how she is having a hard time.
I don't know what to do..

[tinababy143]

my mom lashes out like that every once in a while too..she goes off about how everyone takes advantage of her and how we dont respect her and how she does all the work while we all sit on our asses..blah blah blah..

we usually clean house for her or take her out to dinner when that happens..to show that we do appreciate her..but we dont do it for just that day//week or whatever..we try really hard to keep the house clean and clean up before she comes home and yeah..

it could also be because mothers day is coming up or something..around mothers day my mom always gets like that..she feels like we just kind of ignore her or brush her off sometimes..but its not like that..so yeah..i dunno..

just talk to her..see whats up..ask if you can help her with anything or if there is anything she wants to talk about..try asking her if she wants to go out to lunch or something, just to spend time with her..just you and her..show her that you care ((i know you do..but apparently she feels like you dont))

anyway..i hope everything gets better..keep us posted :)