I'm gay how should I come out?, I really need advice |
 Apr 23 2005, 07:29 PM
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 Be yourself. Unless you suck  Group: Member Posts: 135 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 129,315  |
I'm gay. I've completly accepted myself over the past few months but I haven't come out to friends because I just don't know what the best way to do it would be. I would love some advice on this.
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Apr 24 2005, 11:49 AM
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 You can call me Jon Group: Duplicate Posts: 878 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,806 |
Well, so far, I've let them know that there is something that I need to tell them. Let it kill them for a few days, let them wonder what the hell it is. Then you tell them. Straight out.
It's fun. And it gets rid of your problems. Optimism, kids. Optimism. |
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Apr 24 2005, 01:29 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(xXYouMeBedNowXx @ Apr 24 2005, 9:49 AM) Then you tell them. Straight out.  I don't know if you intended to have a pun there or not but still i chuckled a little.  And you should just tell them. Try not to make a huge ass deal, if they are some good real friends, they will except you and love you all the same. Hell, maybe they will even say "I was wondering when you were going to come out." |
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blondisnirvana I'm gay how should I come out? Apr 23 2005, 07:29 PM
_sarcastic_ just tell them, or break it to them slowly. if th... Apr 23 2005, 07:40 PM YoGrandpaIsFine If they're your friends, they should understan... Apr 23 2005, 07:48 PM Skyline Drive QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Apr 23 2005, 8:40 PM)just... Apr 23 2005, 07:52 PM jooleeah Try not to be so sudden on them. But if they'r... Apr 23 2005, 07:55 PM Shattered_Hope Tell them....be natural and just don't stress.... Apr 23 2005, 08:12 PM dahding break it to them slowly. cause some people get fre... Apr 23 2005, 08:13 PM
angel_revelation QUOTE(dahding @ Apr 23 2005, 5:13 PM)just don... Apr 23 2005, 09:08 PM
azn_r4pf4n QUOTE(dahding @ Apr 23 2005, 5:13 PM)just don... Apr 24 2005, 08:28 PM dahding QUOTE(azn_r4pf4n @ Apr 24 2005, 8:28 PM)that ... Apr 24 2005, 09:10 PM yukichan like someone said, tell them slowly..or hint at it... Apr 23 2005, 08:14 PM simx I think the best way to come out ... especially to... Apr 23 2005, 08:18 PM blondisnirvana Thank you all so much. The advice is really apprec... Apr 24 2005, 01:54 AM bad_girl if yooh are completely sure, confident and brave, ... Apr 24 2005, 03:56 AM mouse_3k If they dont accept u for who u are, then they sho... Apr 24 2005, 11:45 AM simx QUOTE(xXYouMeBedNowXx @ Apr 24 2005, 11:49 AM... Apr 24 2005, 01:35 PM DanielleMaria05 Yeah. LIke everyone else said. If your friends rea... Apr 24 2005, 06:11 PM Ncarolina429 I think first come out to your close friends. If t... Apr 24 2005, 06:23 PM Hiphop d[-_-]b ^ yeah tell your close friends first, the one you ... Apr 24 2005, 08:24 PM DesperateXMeasures Just tell them. It worked for me. If they're r... Apr 24 2005, 08:33 PM vampireduster yeah just come out slowly. If they are your friend... Apr 24 2005, 08:48 PM mishyerr Just open up. It might be a great way to test the ... Apr 24 2005, 09:29 PM imthebunny last year one of my friends told me he was bi and ... Apr 25 2005, 05:16 AM soulless727 if they are your friends they should understand...... Apr 25 2005, 08:02 AM Szeh Slowly make your way on telling them. Theres will ... Apr 25 2005, 01:22 PM Rachel is love Yay for everyone giving the SAME exact advice =) Apr 25 2005, 01:56 PM [Mediocre]Artist Oh man I'd so have fun with that if it was me.... Apr 25 2005, 02:04 PM blah122986 well does it even matter if they know ur gay or no... Apr 25 2005, 02:19 PM canny Don't say anything unless they ask. Heterosexu... Apr 25 2005, 02:56 PM iNyCxShoRT tell them its better off than letting them find ou... Apr 28 2005, 09:27 PM x3__iGiVEup keep it in. maybe talk about it to a close friend.... Apr 28 2005, 11:00 PM taintedtrash first, find some other friends who you can trust t... Apr 29 2005, 09:02 AM xBEBE if they are truly your friends, they'll accept... Apr 29 2005, 09:18 AM |
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