PLLEEAASSEE HELP ME!, I'm SO CONFUSED!! |
 Apr 23 2005, 03:03 PM
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 Captain Screw Up... aka, Mwah!  Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,850  |
OOkay. Well. I started going out with this guy Thurdsay. I felt bad cause my friend and I liked him at the same time.. but, apparently he liked me. I talked to him on the phone for a really long time the night he asked me out. His friend was on three way and we had a really fun conversation. My friend got mad (jealous, I guess) at me cause I didn't tell my boyfriend to call her so she could be in on the conversation. And also, she won't let us do anything together because she 'isn't over him' yet. I feel really strange and tied down because I feel like I have to ask her permission to even talk to my own boyfriend! I hate this. I wanted him to go to the movies with us last night, but she didn't approve. I got kinda mad and just didn't say anything. She then got mad and was like, "JUST CALL HIM! I don't care!! Who cares about my feelings anyways!! All ya'll are gonna do is make out right in my face!" So, yeah. I got mad, and said.. "Well, obviously I care cause I'm asking you for your permission before doing anything with MY boyfriend! It seems like you don't care about MY feelings!" We didn't end up taking my boyfriend. Just me and her..
EUGH! This is just so annoying. I HATE having to ask her to be able to take my boyfriend places with us. I feel so tied down. She is prolly just not letting him go so he'll break up with me cause we don't spend any time together. She doesn't really have a conscience and doesn't really realize when she's guilt tripping, but she does it ALL THE TIME!!!!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!!! What do I do!?! I really like this guy and I actually want a serious relationship right now. I feel ready for it, but at this rate it's so not gonna happen. Thank you so much. ~Lacey |
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Apr 23 2005, 03:29 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
She can't tell you what to do.....since she's never dated him or anything...or even in general. You don't need her permission to do anything. I do suggest you tell her off....before the relationship ends...you need to decide if having a best friend that won't let you do anything with your boyfriend is important....or a guy that you like and that likes you...
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captain_screw_up PLLEEAASSEE HELP ME! Apr 23 2005, 03:03 PM
Frankie i think that whenever a best friend dates their be... Apr 23 2005, 03:06 PM captain_screw_up She never went out with him. We just both liked hi... Apr 23 2005, 03:08 PM Frankie okay, now i understand!!!
tell that ... Apr 23 2005, 03:16 PM misz_ica if she really is a 'friend' then she shoul... Apr 23 2005, 03:30 PM x3__iGiVEup well you could try hooking her up with someone.
a... Apr 23 2005, 03:36 PM _sarcastic_ if she was a real friend she would understand. but... Apr 23 2005, 07:26 PM yukichan hmm..
first of all, i dont get why u asked ur frie... Apr 23 2005, 08:27 PM angel_revelation did she like him first? maybe she feels like she ... Apr 23 2005, 09:25 PM aera hes YOUR boyfriend. dont ask your friend for permi... Apr 24 2005, 10:13 PM gladz612 i think that if she's your true friend she... Apr 26 2005, 12:53 PM kyuubi319 just say: haha i won, you lose, kiss my ass and ge... Apr 26 2005, 03:24 PM
EmmalieV Tell her that hes your boyfriend now , that you sh... Apr 26 2005, 03:32 PM |
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