Sexuality Confusion., Needs some opinions. |
Sexuality Confusion., Needs some opinions. |
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![]() You can call me Jon ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Duplicate Posts: 878 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,806 ![]() |
IF YOU HAVE A PERSONAL PROBLEM, HOMOPHOBES, YOU DON'T NEED TO READ THIS.
I need to know a correct and socially acceptable answer to this question. Very lately, I have been questioning my sexual orientation. For the last...Four years, I felt I was homosexual. Purely. But now, I'm not so sure anymore. Here's what I mean: Males - There is a physical and sexual tension here. I find guys attractive. However, there are a few points about this that I'm not sure about. I can't exactly see myself living with another guy for the rest of my life. So that's a problem. Hi. Sex. Boom. Gone. Females - This is a mentality and personality ed-ordo here. If I wanted to spend my life with someone for the rest of my life, to have someone to go to and to come to, it would be a female. But, I don't find the female anatomy attractive. At...all. (Sorry, Ladies). Having a relationship with a woman means one of pure emotion, and barely any physical attraction. Hi. Sex? Nah, love. Sex? Nah, emotion. STILL NO SEX? Nope. Gone. This is where I need cB's opinion. I am not sure what I am anymore. It's brooding. Suggestions? |
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![]() You can call me Jon ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Duplicate Posts: 878 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,806 ![]() |
Well very simply this is what happened.
I won't say who it is, cause she is here on cB. Apparantly, she read the topic. I made it while we weren't so sure about what we felt about each other, and coincidentally, she happened to bump into this. She had feelings for me, not knowing what I looked like, or imperfections that I was subject to, only the things that I have told her and what she has read. So apparantly, we talked about it. How sexuality is an interesting factor. Before I met her, I was pretty locked on Homosexuality. The possibility of me being with a woman, and the fact that I could enjoy life as a normal person, didn't come up until then. But when certain feelings come into place, when certain things came up and molded a bond without the connection of factor, it stands out. Apparantly, after she read, she had no new opinions about me. We both agreed that a relationship can truly be based off something emotional, that sexuality is just another factor that can be overidden by the feelings for one another. Small things shouldn't hold something big like love back. Even if sometimes those small things may seem impossible to go around. |
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