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Sexuality Confusion., Needs some opinions.
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post Apr 21 2005, 07:40 PM
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IF YOU HAVE A PERSONAL PROBLEM, HOMOPHOBES, YOU DON'T NEED TO READ THIS.


I need to know a correct and socially acceptable answer to this question. Very lately, I have been questioning my sexual orientation. For the last...Four years, I felt I was homosexual. Purely. But now, I'm not so sure anymore. Here's what I mean:

Males - There is a physical and sexual tension here. I find guys attractive. However, there are a few points about this that I'm not sure about. I can't exactly see myself living with another guy for the rest of my life. So that's a problem. Hi. Sex. Boom. Gone.

Females - This is a mentality and personality ed-ordo here. If I wanted to spend my life with someone for the rest of my life, to have someone to go to and to come to, it would be a female. But, I don't find the female anatomy attractive. At...all. (Sorry, Ladies). Having a relationship with a woman means one of pure emotion, and barely any physical attraction. Hi. Sex? Nah, love. Sex? Nah, emotion. STILL NO SEX? Nope. Gone.

This is where I need cB's opinion. I am not sure what I am anymore. It's brooding. Suggestions?
 
 
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post Apr 23 2005, 12:26 PM
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Well very simply this is what happened.

I won't say who it is, cause she is here on cB.

Apparantly, she read the topic. I made it while we weren't so sure about what we felt about each other, and coincidentally, she happened to bump into this. She had feelings for me, not knowing what I looked like, or imperfections that I was subject to, only the things that I have told her and what she has read. So apparantly, we talked about it. How sexuality is an interesting factor. Before I met her, I was pretty locked on Homosexuality. The possibility of me being with a woman, and the fact that I could enjoy life as a normal person, didn't come up until then. But when certain feelings come into place, when certain things came up and molded a bond without the connection of factor, it stands out.

Apparantly, after she read, she had no new opinions about me. We both agreed that a relationship can truly be based off something emotional, that sexuality is just another factor that can be overidden by the feelings for one another.

Small things shouldn't hold something big like love back. Even if sometimes those small things may seem impossible to go around.
 

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xXYouMeBedNowXx   Sexuality Confusion.   Apr 21 2005, 07:40 PM
Frankie   well, if guys are the only sex that turn you on, s...   Apr 21 2005, 07:44 PM
xXYouMeBedNowXx   I was pretty sure I was homosexual for a while (ab...   Apr 21 2005, 07:46 PM
iheartsimba   I guess I have to agree with Frankie..on the exper...   Apr 21 2005, 07:49 PM
starlette   hmm.. I suppose you have to find one person who ca...   Apr 21 2005, 07:50 PM
Frankie   ^ are you talking about the fact that you can...   Apr 21 2005, 07:51 PM
xXYouMeBedNowXx   QUOTEOr you could get with a femal body builder. I...   Apr 21 2005, 07:53 PM
pinayprincess   thats funny -- hi. sex. boom. gone lol ---but hey ...   Apr 21 2005, 08:01 PM
dani41790   Hmm I think you might be bisexual. IDK im just gue...   Apr 21 2005, 08:08 PM
aera   QUOTE(dani41790 @ Apr 21 2005, 9:08 PM)Hmm I ...   Apr 21 2005, 08:16 PM
xXYouMeBedNowXx   Apparantly, there isn't only one way to be bi.   Apr 21 2005, 08:09 PM
Chii   that's a lot like me, with the whole "Hi....   Apr 21 2005, 08:27 PM
Frankie   QUOTE(pinayprincess @ Apr 21 2005, 7:01 PM)th...   Apr 21 2005, 08:28 PM
lost [child]   I don't really think there's a straight an...   Apr 21 2005, 08:30 PM
Shattered_Hope   Umm...in this situation....I'd say you were ga...   Apr 21 2005, 08:35 PM
xXYouMeBedNowXx   QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Apr 21 2005, 8:35 PM)U...   Apr 21 2005, 08:38 PM
mzkandi   anyways, i have guy friend, who is gay, go through...   Apr 21 2005, 08:42 PM
Soleil   One of my friends is going through the exact same ...   Apr 21 2005, 08:57 PM
Rachel is love   I'd say you should experiment...Maybe hooking ...   Apr 21 2005, 09:20 PM
FoOd   QUOTE(xxcrazyjewxx @ Apr 21 2005, 7:20 PM)I...   Apr 21 2005, 09:33 PM
xXYouMeBedNowXx   I think my prayers have been answered. Thanks guy...   Apr 21 2005, 10:49 PM
sadolakced acid   care to share?   Apr 21 2005, 10:59 PM
toodlepops.   Uhh, I suggest you see a councelor because I don...   Apr 22 2005, 04:51 AM
Rachel is love   QUOTE(saMieRa @ Apr 22 2005, 2:51 AM)Uhh, I s...   Apr 22 2005, 08:06 PM
cHuNsAbAbIe012   question: have u ever TRIED having sex with a woma...   Apr 22 2005, 07:51 PM
Haruka   I know you got alot of answers, but my cousin gave...   Apr 22 2005, 10:06 PM
xXYouMeBedNowXx   Well very simply this is what happened. I won...   Apr 23 2005, 12:26 PM
angel_revelation   i think it depends what sort of relationships you ...   Apr 23 2005, 09:28 PM
han1017   if you find guys more sexualy attractive then i wo...   Apr 23 2005, 09:38 PM
blondisnirvana   You shouldn't rush to define your sexuality. I...   Apr 23 2005, 09:39 PM
xXYouMeBedNowXx   I believed Four years of wondering would come up w...   Apr 23 2005, 09:46 PM


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