Sexuality Confusion., Needs some opinions. |
 Apr 21 2005, 07:40 PM
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 You can call me Jon  Group: Duplicate Posts: 878 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,806  |
IF YOU HAVE A PERSONAL PROBLEM, HOMOPHOBES, YOU DON'T NEED TO READ THIS.
I need to know a correct and socially acceptable answer to this question. Very lately, I have been questioning my sexual orientation. For the last...Four years, I felt I was homosexual. Purely. But now, I'm not so sure anymore. Here's what I mean: Males - There is a physical and sexual tension here. I find guys attractive. However, there are a few points about this that I'm not sure about. I can't exactly see myself living with another guy for the rest of my life. So that's a problem. Hi. Sex. Boom. Gone. Females - This is a mentality and personality ed-ordo here. If I wanted to spend my life with someone for the rest of my life, to have someone to go to and to come to, it would be a female. But, I don't find the female anatomy attractive. At...all. (Sorry, Ladies). Having a relationship with a woman means one of pure emotion, and barely any physical attraction. Hi. Sex? Nah, love. Sex? Nah, emotion. STILL NO SEX? Nope. Gone. This is where I need cB's opinion. I am not sure what I am anymore. It's brooding. Suggestions? |
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Apr 22 2005, 10:06 PM
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 Just sit and listen... Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,339 |
I know you got alot of answers, but my cousin gave me the best advice and with best wishes for you, i pass it along:
You are young. Experimenting is the ONLY way you will ever find your answer, but in the end you may not even have an acuall definite answer, but you will eventually know what you want. You cannot expect to make a decision this early on, because you have yet to live out your life. I will add a little more: I have gone throught the same thing, and i'm in that situation where i'm asking myself who i am and what i want. Do i want kids? Am I really a lesbian? I won't know for a W H I L E, but in the meantime, i'm enjoying life and experimenting with whatever come my way (doesn't mean drugs though hahahha, that's no good for ne one) o and i'm only 17, so yea, if i don't have the answer yet, don't expect to anytime soon Enjoy life! don't stress too much about something that you can't control unless you've tried it all. Just try it all and see what you want =] good luck! |
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xXYouMeBedNowXx Sexuality Confusion. Apr 21 2005, 07:40 PM
Frankie well, if guys are the only sex that turn you on, s... Apr 21 2005, 07:44 PM xXYouMeBedNowXx I was pretty sure I was homosexual for a while (ab... Apr 21 2005, 07:46 PM iheartsimba I guess I have to agree with Frankie..on the exper... Apr 21 2005, 07:49 PM starlette hmm.. I suppose you have to find one person who ca... Apr 21 2005, 07:50 PM Frankie ^ are you talking about the fact that you can... Apr 21 2005, 07:51 PM xXYouMeBedNowXx QUOTEOr you could get with a femal body builder.
I... Apr 21 2005, 07:53 PM pinayprincess thats funny -- hi. sex. boom. gone lol ---but hey ... Apr 21 2005, 08:01 PM dani41790 Hmm I think you might be bisexual. IDK im just gue... Apr 21 2005, 08:08 PM
aera QUOTE(dani41790 @ Apr 21 2005, 9:08 PM)Hmm I ... Apr 21 2005, 08:16 PM xXYouMeBedNowXx Apparantly, there isn't only one way to be bi. Apr 21 2005, 08:09 PM Chii that's a lot like me, with the whole "Hi.... Apr 21 2005, 08:27 PM Frankie QUOTE(pinayprincess @ Apr 21 2005, 7:01 PM)th... Apr 21 2005, 08:28 PM lost [child] I don't really think there's a straight an... Apr 21 2005, 08:30 PM Shattered_Hope Umm...in this situation....I'd say you were ga... Apr 21 2005, 08:35 PM xXYouMeBedNowXx QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Apr 21 2005, 8:35 PM)U... Apr 21 2005, 08:38 PM mzkandi anyways, i have guy friend, who is gay, go through... Apr 21 2005, 08:42 PM Soleil One of my friends is going through the exact same ... Apr 21 2005, 08:57 PM Rachel is love I'd say you should experiment...Maybe hooking ... Apr 21 2005, 09:20 PM FoOd QUOTE(xxcrazyjewxx @ Apr 21 2005, 7:20 PM)I... Apr 21 2005, 09:33 PM xXYouMeBedNowXx I think my prayers have been answered.
Thanks guy... Apr 21 2005, 10:49 PM sadolakced acid care to share? Apr 21 2005, 10:59 PM toodlepops. Uhh, I suggest you see a councelor because I don... Apr 22 2005, 04:51 AM Rachel is love QUOTE(saMieRa @ Apr 22 2005, 2:51 AM)Uhh, I s... Apr 22 2005, 08:06 PM cHuNsAbAbIe012 question: have u ever TRIED having sex with a woma... Apr 22 2005, 07:51 PM xXYouMeBedNowXx Well very simply this is what happened.
I won... Apr 23 2005, 12:26 PM angel_revelation i think it depends what sort of relationships you ... Apr 23 2005, 09:28 PM han1017 if you find guys more sexualy attractive then i wo... Apr 23 2005, 09:38 PM blondisnirvana You shouldn't rush to define your sexuality. I... Apr 23 2005, 09:39 PM xXYouMeBedNowXx I believed Four years of wondering would come up w... Apr 23 2005, 09:46 PM |
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