keepin the distance, is it the right thing to do? |
 Apr 21 2005, 08:57 PM
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 Some 1 plz find me, help me find my way..my way bak 2 bliss  Group: Member Posts: 288 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,748  |
ok there is this kid who is liek one of my closest friends... he is like a little/ big brother to me and i like him and it is obvious he lieks me ... now here is the delimma... we are sort of kind of going out.. like he has not officlally asked me out but we act like we're going out.. no sexual stuff or kissing or making out jus a lot of the puppy love relationship stuff.. like holding hands and hugging...we have liked each other before but at the time i had a b/f and that did not end up so well... in the end i ended up hurting him.. this has happened couple times before... now i'm single and we obviously still like each other... but i'm afraid i'm going to hurt him again so i am sort of very distant from him... like i
m afraid if i act as i usally would with a boy friend he'll end up getting very attached to me n he will get hurt and vice versa... he is a very depressed person and this is the first time in 5 months that i have seen him happy..... i can't stand to see him depressed but i am afraid i am going to hurt him.... but i also feel bad that i am being very distant.... is keeping this distance good?... or shud i just express all my emotions?... please help i feel so terrible |
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Apr 22 2005, 12:22 AM
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 Call me Julie Group: Member Posts: 183 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,042 |
IN MY OPINION..I DON'T THINK YOU SHOULD KEEP THE DISTANCE BECAUSE KEEPING THE DISTANCE MIGHT HURT HIM EVEN MORE! AND YOU SAID YOU ARE HIS CLOSEST FRIEND..WELL..ACT LIKE IT..BE NICE TO HIM..BUT IF YOU DON'T LIKE HIM..THEN DON'T ACT LIKE YOU LIKE HIM OR ELSE HE WOULD GET MORE ATTRACTED TO YOU.
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Apr 22 2005, 06:38 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
QUOTE(daonlylonely1 @ Apr 22 2005, 12:22 AM) IN MY OPINION..I DON'T THINK YOU SHOULD KEEP THE DISTANCE BECAUSE KEEPING THE DISTANCE MIGHT HURT HIM EVEN MORE! AND YOU SAID YOU ARE HIS CLOSEST FRIEND..WELL..ACT LIKE IT..BE NICE TO HIM..BUT IF YOU DON'T LIKE HIM..THEN DON'T ACT LIKE YOU LIKE HIM OR ELSE HE WOULD GET MORE ATTRACTED TO YOU.  please don't type in all caps. it's annoying i agree with tooeffingcrazy, don't avoid him, that'll make him feel a lot worst. tell him how you really feel about him. |
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LoST SouL keepin the distance Apr 21 2005, 08:57 PM
tooeffingcrazy The more you avoid him, the more confused and hear... Apr 22 2005, 12:19 AM
XLilAznGrl592X done avoid him... just step up and tell him if u a... Apr 22 2005, 12:23 AM K!$$ Agree with tooeffingcrazy.
Have you thought about... Apr 22 2005, 03:30 AM cHuNsAbAbIe012 my GOD! so obvious! love is always taking ... Apr 22 2005, 01:49 PM Shattered_Hope If you want to keep distance between you two...the... Apr 22 2005, 03:40 PM
InLove_x If you both like each other, keeping a distance is... Apr 22 2005, 03:42 PM |
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