he asked me out, broke up with me the next day Options

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

i really really really like this guy and my friends say im sprung and i guess i am. so after about a week of people asking him about me he decided to ask me out i guess. so when he asked me out i swear i was the happiest person in the whole damn world.my friends were hugging me and screaming it down the hallways that we were going out and they even posted bulletins about it on myspace. cos they knew how much i liked him and wanted to be with him. that night i went to sleep smiling and thinking of him and i woke up like 3 hours later and cos i had so many thoughts of him on my mind and i was jst so happy, i couldnt get backto sleep cos my mind was occupied with happy thoughts about us.

sounds nice right ?

he broke up with me the next day and it felt like my world shattered. i cried, and ive never ever cried over a break-up and ive had about 20 breakups, more or less [ but like 3 or 4 less ] and i dont know. i think he was pressured into going out with me and regretted it, and broke up with me saying he has too many problems [ or "shit"] in his life right now. i dont know what to do, im going to talk to him but as of this moment i feel so confused and sad and just.. stupid. i feel like an idiot for thinking he`d actually want to be with me.

i need advice or a story of yours or anything..

[Chii]

my dear...break ups suck especially if one person doesn't want to give the new relationship a try...he is such a jerk for giving into peer pressure and getting your hopes high. he's not worth your tears, no dirtbag is ever worth one salty tear. you're the one who's going to grow up and live life the way you want to, he's just going to sway wherever the wind blows and have others make his decisions, someday in the future this will definately come back and bite him in his wothless ass.

this guy broke up with me about a week after we started to go out. it was for two reasons, i didn't play handball and i didn't appreciate the way he acted when other people were around us while we were going out. he seemed to pull away from me when certain people were around and i confronted him and he got all psycho. he made up all this sh*t about how he cuts himself and that he was going to commit suicide. he didn't cut himself or ever contemplate suicide, he just carried a box cutter blade to be cool i cried for that dumbass and i'm pissed that i did that, he ain't sh*t.

there are plenty of better men out there...just don't give your heart away so easily or fast.

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i read your xanga entry...wait a minute he told someone else to break up with you for him? if he did that then he really ain't sh*t, dry your eyes he's not even man enough to deal with his own personal matters