Sexuality Confusion., Needs some opinions. |
 Apr 21 2005, 07:40 PM
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 You can call me Jon  Group: Duplicate Posts: 878 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,806  |
IF YOU HAVE A PERSONAL PROBLEM, HOMOPHOBES, YOU DON'T NEED TO READ THIS.
I need to know a correct and socially acceptable answer to this question. Very lately, I have been questioning my sexual orientation. For the last...Four years, I felt I was homosexual. Purely. But now, I'm not so sure anymore. Here's what I mean: Males - There is a physical and sexual tension here. I find guys attractive. However, there are a few points about this that I'm not sure about. I can't exactly see myself living with another guy for the rest of my life. So that's a problem. Hi. Sex. Boom. Gone. Females - This is a mentality and personality ed-ordo here. If I wanted to spend my life with someone for the rest of my life, to have someone to go to and to come to, it would be a female. But, I don't find the female anatomy attractive. At...all. (Sorry, Ladies). Having a relationship with a woman means one of pure emotion, and barely any physical attraction. Hi. Sex? Nah, love. Sex? Nah, emotion. STILL NO SEX? Nope. Gone. This is where I need cB's opinion. I am not sure what I am anymore. It's brooding. Suggestions? |
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Apr 21 2005, 08:42 PM
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anyways, i have guy friend, who is gay, go through the same questions you are asking yourself. He was going through that time in his life when he was finding out who he was, and what he liked, and what he did and did not want out of life. He was ashamed, yes ashamed, to say he was gay to anyone at. me and my best friend was the first person he came out to. But even then he was confused because mentally speaking he still found girls attractive and had in his mind that a female would be the person he would spend the rest of his life with. On the other hand, he was highly attracted to males on both the phyiscal and mental level. In the end males was his choice. He actually cant stand to many females now. But anyways I guess the point is you have to go with your heart on this one. No one can really tell you what you think you should do because deep down you know what you really want.
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xXYouMeBedNowXx Sexuality Confusion. Apr 21 2005, 07:40 PM
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Thanks guy... Apr 21 2005, 10:49 PM sadolakced acid care to share? Apr 21 2005, 10:59 PM toodlepops. Uhh, I suggest you see a councelor because I don... Apr 22 2005, 04:51 AM Rachel is love QUOTE(saMieRa @ Apr 22 2005, 2:51 AM)Uhh, I s... Apr 22 2005, 08:06 PM cHuNsAbAbIe012 question: have u ever TRIED having sex with a woma... Apr 22 2005, 07:51 PM Haruka I know you got alot of answers, but my cousin gave... Apr 22 2005, 10:06 PM xXYouMeBedNowXx Well very simply this is what happened.
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