Wanting a gf vs Needing one Options

[MrElsewhere]

Okay so here's my situation: My exgirlfriend and I broke up like a month and a half ago. Healing process and what not is still going on, cuz it was a sorta long relationship(for middle school): 11 months. But now I still have feelings for this girl from last year. I guess i never really stopped liking her, but anyways, she also likes me. So now I'm trying to decide whether or not to ask her to be my girlfriend. So now I come to my problem: I don't know whether or not I want her to be my girlfriend because I like her or because I just want to have a girlfriend again.. Can anybody help me tell the difference?

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

i think it's both. u did have a long relationship with someone so u probly need someone to be with cuz ur so use to that. but u also like the girl n u wanna be with her. u just become more sensitive to the way feel about pple. they come faster cuz u wanna b with someone but u do like that person but it's possible u might rush the way u feel about one person because u want wat u had with ur ex. u jsut kind of have to figure it out yourself. make mistakes cuz...then u wont learn from it. but yea...maybe wait a lil longer. it's really up to u tho.