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Wanting a gf vs Needing one
MrElsewhere
post Apr 20 2005, 11:54 PM
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Okay so here's my situation: My exgirlfriend and I broke up like a month and a half ago. Healing process and what not is still going on, cuz it was a sorta long relationship(for middle school): 11 months. But now I still have feelings for this girl from last year. I guess i never really stopped liking her, but anyways, she also likes me. So now I'm trying to decide whether or not to ask her to be my girlfriend. So now I come to my problem: I don't know whether or not I want her to be my girlfriend because I like her or because I just want to have a girlfriend again.. Can anybody help me tell the difference?
 
 
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Shattered_Hope
post Apr 21 2005, 03:44 PM
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I think you should wait a little while longer...to see if you really like this girl...or if you're just on the rebound...and like her because you want a girlfriend. Trying talking to some other girls and if you get the same feeling when you're with them...then you'll know that you only liked her because you wanted a girlfriend. But if the feeling you get when you talk to these other girls are not the same as when you're talking to her...then you'll know that you like her not because you want a girlfriend but because of who she is..
 

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