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Friend.., Dunno wut to do....
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post Apr 19 2005, 07:05 PM
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ok.. I have this friend, she is 2 years older than me and we have been friend for like forever... now she's in 8th grade and everyones getting a bf... a few weeks ago, she asked me to find her a bf... i was like ok........ of course i tried but no one matched.... then i saw her a week later and she said she got a bf... i asked her who and all she said was 'i met him online on a game' she said the game was runescape... i played it once and all the guys were nasty! they go around asking for 'it' ugh she wouldnt tell me sn or anything... she said when she ims him, he doesent even answer her... she is so in love with him, but by the facts her SISTER gave me about him, it just seems like he's just with her to get stuff from the game... im afraid she will get hurt... some relationships online work, but most dont... idunno wut to do... she is so in love with him she thinks they will b together forever...
 
 
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Chii
post Apr 19 2005, 07:14 PM
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her sister may be exaggerating...most people do that to express their opinion about some things...

get her to look at the big picture, does she turly believe in her heart that this will work out and they'll live happily ever after?

actually, has she even met him in person before? you can't plan a future with someone you've never met, it's as if you're planning your future with someone who doesn't exist. he doesn't even answer her IMs, is that what she wants in the future? a husband who won't give a sh*t about convering with his wife?

ask her things like that...don't attack her though she'll probably get pissed if you do, stay calm when you talk to her about this stuff.
 
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post Apr 19 2005, 09:24 PM
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QUOTE(chii @ Apr 19 2005, 2:14 PM)
her sister may be exaggerating...most people do that to express their opinion about some things...

get her to look at the big picture, does she turly believe in her heart that this will work out and they'll live happily ever after?

actually, has she even met him in person before?  you can't plan a future with someone you've never met, it's as if you're planning your future with someone who doesn't exist.  he doesn't even answer her IMs, is that what she wants in the future? a husband who won't give a sh*t about convering with his wife?

ask her things like that...don't attack her though she'll probably get pissed if you do, stay calm when you talk to her about this stuff.

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I agree..
Try to talk to her and tell her gently that the person could be 10 or 20 years older than her..And you don't want her to get hurt...
If that doesn't work then let her go..Sometimes people learn a lot from their mistakes..
 

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