he asked me out, but... |
 Apr 19 2005, 05:41 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find.  Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096  |
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ok, so friend 1 (a girl), who is friends with friend 2 (a guy) (and also friends with me) told me that f2 likes me. i was honestly stunned. REALLY stunned. but... he's just my friend! so she asked me also if i would go out with him. after a while (of intense stressfulness nerve wracking-ness) i said i'd think about it, when i wanted to say no. *sigh* and so later, in english, he seemed to be avoiding me...  of course it's understandable though...i mean i dont want to have a boyfriend just for the sake of having one right?? and wouldnt saying yes, when i dont like him, hurt him worse later on, when i tell him the truth? i feel like if i'd say yes to any guy, i'd have to like him right off. it would just have to seem right, and i'd want to say yes without even thinking. and i havent liked him anymore then a friend so... i wouldnt want to possibly 'grow' to like him you know? ..... then why do i still feel miserable about the whole thing?  i've decided to tell him myself later on... 
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Apr 19 2005, 09:21 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
That happened to me before...
I think the reason you are feeling miserable is because you think you hurt your friend's feelings. I think you did the right thing by telling him you didn't like him..If you didn't tell him before there was a relationship, it would just hurt him more when he finds out you didn't like him.. |
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angel_revelation he asked me out Apr 19 2005, 05:41 PM
iheartsimba I know exactly how you feel. You don't like hi... Apr 19 2005, 05:45 PM icy_angelx I think ya feel miserable because like you made h... Apr 19 2005, 05:50 PM Shattered_Hope You feel bad because you've just rejected some... Apr 19 2005, 08:18 PM ethik dreamer SNAP OUT OF IT. DONT FEEL HORRIBLE FOR SAYING NO T... Apr 19 2005, 08:25 PM _sarcastic_ it's totally understandable that you feel bad ... Apr 19 2005, 09:00 PM mzkandi You dont like him. So tell him you arent feeling h... Apr 19 2005, 09:02 PM
neKronos! QUOTE(mzkandi @ Apr 19 2005, 10:02 PM)You don... Apr 20 2005, 11:37 PM pinayprincess you need to talk to him Apr 19 2005, 10:02 PM cHuNsAbAbIe012 it's ok. it's not like your breaking his h... Apr 19 2005, 10:15 PM angel_revelation QUOTE(cHuNsAbAbIe012 @ Apr 19 2005, 7:15 PM)i... Apr 20 2005, 01:03 AM pingpang_0811 i know your feeling. u feel bad for refusing a guy... Apr 20 2005, 05:12 AM 177emories give him a try? =(
nah... if you don't like s... Apr 20 2005, 05:11 PM Rachel is love You are kind of pathetic Apr 20 2005, 11:43 PM |
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