paying for your boyfriend..., y is that such a bad thing? |
 Apr 18 2005, 08:01 PM
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gRaCiE  Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997  |
well ok here's the thing...my boyfriend's mom lives with his stepdad who hates him n so he lives with his sister but his mom still give him money wen she could. he doesnt have a job so his sister n her boyfriend are paying all the bills n he uses the money he gets from his mom to get food. all he's doing rite now is going to school. no job cuz its hard getting a job n going to school at the same time but he's looking for one. well i've been helping my boyfriend with his cell phone bill n getting food. i paid for his phone bill cuz i want to have a way to reach him. he doesnt have a home phone at his sister's place n he cant eat his sister's food unless she says it's ok n his mom doesnt always give him money for food every time he needs it but she does give him money but the times he doesnt have money to have food i wanna buy him some groceries for him n buy him food. is that really such a bad thing? i mean...is my boyfriend being a bad boyfriend if that's the case? i dont want him getting hungry...i dont see wats wrong with helping out a hungry person...especially if its someone u love. my friends chastise me all the time for givng into my boyfriend so much but i do it cuz i love him n i know he loves me n i wanna do all these things for him. y do my friends get so mad about it? sorry that this is so long...
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Apr 18 2005, 08:29 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
YOur friends are SOOOO stereotypical! They probably think guys should pay for everything. Even if they know the situation, they don't TRULY comprehend it enough to not be judgemental. Catch my drift? YOu're just trying to help your boyfriend out. I'm sure that if it was the other way around, your boyfriend would be helping YOU out. You friends really don't know the entire story, even if they say they do.
They're being stereotypical, thinking guys should handle everything, that guys have money. That's not always the case, in my book. Your friends really need a reality check. I think it's sweet because it shows that you care a lot about your boyfriend and that he'll be healthy and have food to eat. :]  You're a caring girlfriend.
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cHuNsAbAbIe012 paying for your boyfriend... Apr 18 2005, 08:01 PM
Nicolatofu I'd like to know their reasoning for being ups... Apr 18 2005, 08:07 PM Chii maybe your friends are getting mad because it seem... Apr 18 2005, 08:18 PM aera your friends think hes using you. it really does s... Apr 18 2005, 08:25 PM cHuNsAbAbIe012 nah...they know his situation. they just think if ... Apr 18 2005, 08:25 PM
pingpang_0811 QUOTE(cHuNsAbAbIe012 @ Apr 19 2005, 10:25 AM)... Apr 19 2005, 08:23 AM mzkandi I are doing nothing wrong. I see nothing wrong wit... Apr 18 2005, 08:30 PM starlette well because I was in a relatioship like that and ... Apr 18 2005, 08:33 PM strwbrrykiwi23 i think what you're doing for him is very swee... Apr 18 2005, 09:31 PM WrathOfOnigo Wow you are a wonderful girlfriend to do that for ... Apr 18 2005, 09:36 PM Chii you shouldn't stop going to school just to sup... Apr 18 2005, 10:31 PM dani41790 when they chastise you then ignore them. I think w... Apr 18 2005, 10:36 PM blah122986 well u love him ..he loves u...its all good....im ... Apr 19 2005, 08:09 AM cHuNsAbAbIe012 lol! i didnt stop going to school to support h... Apr 19 2005, 09:44 AM Shattered_Hope Your friends probably doesn't like you paying ... Apr 19 2005, 05:04 PM JsWuz take advice from a guy
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paying for ur ... Apr 19 2005, 05:30 PM JsWuz QUOTE(JsWuz @ Apr 19 2005, 6:30 PM)take advic... Apr 19 2005, 05:34 PM JsWuz QUOTE(JsWuz @ Apr 19 2005, 6:30 PM)take advic... Apr 19 2005, 05:35 PM EmmalieV You really are a loving gf , your friends bother y... Apr 19 2005, 05:31 PM icy_angelx I don't think it's a bad thing to help out... Apr 19 2005, 06:21 PM |
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