paying for your boyfriend..., y is that such a bad thing? |
 Apr 18 2005, 08:01 PM
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gRaCiE  Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997  |
well ok here's the thing...my boyfriend's mom lives with his stepdad who hates him n so he lives with his sister but his mom still give him money wen she could. he doesnt have a job so his sister n her boyfriend are paying all the bills n he uses the money he gets from his mom to get food. all he's doing rite now is going to school. no job cuz its hard getting a job n going to school at the same time but he's looking for one. well i've been helping my boyfriend with his cell phone bill n getting food. i paid for his phone bill cuz i want to have a way to reach him. he doesnt have a home phone at his sister's place n he cant eat his sister's food unless she says it's ok n his mom doesnt always give him money for food every time he needs it but she does give him money but the times he doesnt have money to have food i wanna buy him some groceries for him n buy him food. is that really such a bad thing? i mean...is my boyfriend being a bad boyfriend if that's the case? i dont want him getting hungry...i dont see wats wrong with helping out a hungry person...especially if its someone u love. my friends chastise me all the time for givng into my boyfriend so much but i do it cuz i love him n i know he loves me n i wanna do all these things for him. y do my friends get so mad about it? sorry that this is so long...
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Apr 18 2005, 08:18 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
maybe your friends are getting mad because it seems like he's using you...
 you should probably clue them in on the real story about how hard things are for him right now...i bring my boyfriend food but it's kind of different, his parents don't make him dinner or don't give him money sometimes because they don't feel like it sometimes 
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cHuNsAbAbIe012 paying for your boyfriend... Apr 18 2005, 08:01 PM
Nicolatofu I'd like to know their reasoning for being ups... Apr 18 2005, 08:07 PM aera your friends think hes using you. it really does s... Apr 18 2005, 08:25 PM cHuNsAbAbIe012 nah...they know his situation. they just think if ... Apr 18 2005, 08:25 PM
pingpang_0811 QUOTE(cHuNsAbAbIe012 @ Apr 19 2005, 10:25 AM)... Apr 19 2005, 08:23 AM Just_Dream YOur friends are SOOOO stereotypical! They pro... Apr 18 2005, 08:29 PM mzkandi I are doing nothing wrong. I see nothing wrong wit... Apr 18 2005, 08:30 PM starlette well because I was in a relatioship like that and ... Apr 18 2005, 08:33 PM strwbrrykiwi23 i think what you're doing for him is very swee... Apr 18 2005, 09:31 PM WrathOfOnigo Wow you are a wonderful girlfriend to do that for ... Apr 18 2005, 09:36 PM Chii you shouldn't stop going to school just to sup... Apr 18 2005, 10:31 PM dani41790 when they chastise you then ignore them. I think w... Apr 18 2005, 10:36 PM blah122986 well u love him ..he loves u...its all good....im ... Apr 19 2005, 08:09 AM cHuNsAbAbIe012 lol! i didnt stop going to school to support h... Apr 19 2005, 09:44 AM Shattered_Hope Your friends probably doesn't like you paying ... Apr 19 2005, 05:04 PM JsWuz take advice from a guy
(im not gay)
paying for ur ... Apr 19 2005, 05:30 PM JsWuz QUOTE(JsWuz @ Apr 19 2005, 6:30 PM)take advic... Apr 19 2005, 05:34 PM JsWuz QUOTE(JsWuz @ Apr 19 2005, 6:30 PM)take advic... Apr 19 2005, 05:35 PM EmmalieV You really are a loving gf , your friends bother y... Apr 19 2005, 05:31 PM icy_angelx I don't think it's a bad thing to help out... Apr 19 2005, 06:21 PM |
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