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| *islandgirl4eva* |
 Apr 18 2005, 07:58 AM
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I recently divulged to my parents that I wasn't sure I wanted to return to the Catholic Church. I never went much as a child, and thus was able to explore and develop my own opinions on organized religion. They were, let's say, not quite supportive. We had a big discussion about it and I said that I wanted to take a World Religious Studies class in college to become more knowledgeable and gain more perspective on the matter.
They are very wary of my decision and ask that no matter what I do, I remain a Catholic. I don't want them to feel like I'm betraying them, betraying my heritage, but I just don't see things the way “they” want me to see them. What would you do? Would you go to church just to make your parents happy, or would you go your own way and explore things for yourself? EDIT// This is not for advice. I just wanted to know what others might do. |
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Apr 18 2005, 08:38 AM
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 Quand j'étais jeune...  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
Attending to church isn't a bad thing. I've been agnostic for a while, but I still go to church occasinally to please my nun cousin. Going to church is NOT going to make you lose what you believe in, does it? If it does, then re-think how strong your beliefs are and if they are worth believing.
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