a trainwreck waiting to happen, drama in the drama department Options

[fuzz4]

so if you read my last post I like a guy Bob who likes this other girl Jill. We're all in our school play together. So ya i got great advice last time to become friends with him first and just see where it goes. I've run into some drama on the way though. My friend Lisa was talking to me about Bob then Frank overheard us. Frank then told Jill that someone in the cast likes Bob (its a giant cast of over 40 people) Jill then told Bob that someone in the cast likes him and Bob started baggering Frank to tell him. Frank didnt tell him who it was but apparently Bob thought it was me but Frank is convinced that he totally lead him off track.

I kinda wanna tell Bob that I like him but I know if I do its gonna turn into this whole dramatic thing and he'll probably avoid me. I already feel like he's avoiding me now and i really dont want it to get werid like this cause I'd be cool just being friends. See I think now that the only reason I started liking Bob was because Jill was being so mean to him and it was outta pity. I'm still trying to figure out my feelings for Bob. Meanwhile all this drama is going on. I just hope no one tells Bob I like him before I figure out my true feelings for him. All I know is that I want to be the one to tell Bob not someone else.

So my plan is to figure out my feelings for Bob and then explain to him where I'm coming from. Is that a good idea? Any other advice?

(sorry its kinda long i needed to get it all off my chest)

[yukichan]

hmm..It depends on if you still want to remain friends with him or have him ignore u forever..If Bob likes Jill then obviously he's going to ignore u if u tell him that u like him...So I wouldn't recommend telling him...If you want to remain friends or at least have him not ignore u, then u shouldnt tell him..But if u want to take the risk and tell him and maybe have something more than friends happen then go for it..

[kryzcoak47luv666]

hmm..It depends on if you still want to remain friends with him or have him ignore u forever..If Bob likes Jill then obviously he's going to ignore u if u tell him that u like him...So I wouldn't recommend telling him...If you want to remain friends or at least have him not ignore u, then u shouldnt tell him..But if u want to take the risk and tell him and maybe have something more than friends happen then go for it..

agreed, take the chance if you want, you never know what may happen, maybe you should remain friends for now, get to know him on a deeper level, and if he seems like the dramatic type, then you know not to tell him.