I'M LEAVING CB AND NOW THIS??!!!, ARRGGHH!!! |
 Apr 16 2005, 08:20 PM
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yerp!  Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454  |
Talk about bad timing. As you can see in the signature, I'm leaving Createblog for a while.
Well, I'm sure you all know I am engaged. What you probably don't know is that my fiance is 18 years older than me. (I'm 17 years old.) Of course, my friends have accepted it, he really is a wonderful guy and I've been dating him for about 2 years, and Geena adores him to death, it's just that my family doesn't know how old he is yet. Most of you know that I had Geena when I was just 13, by another man - the man responsible for me leaving CB (  ) - and when I had her, my family basically disowned me. I haven't talked to them since. BUT.... This morning, guess who calls? My parents. They heard I was getting married, blah blah. They complained that I have been ignoring them, and why should I? I mean, they only ditched me to be on my own, carrying a baby for 9 months, with no money. [/end sarcasm] But since they are family, and I haven't seen/talked to them in almost 5 years, I decided to let them meet my fiance. The only thing is, I'm worried what they'll think about him. I mean, as previously stated, he is a GREAT guy and I know because Geena is in love with him (  ), but my family just won't understand. They still are criticizing, rude and ashamed about me having Gee, but of course, they're family and I admit that I miss them. Sort of. John (my fiance) is pretty excited to meet them, even though he thinks he knows that I'm uncomfortable about it. He just thinks I'm uncomfortable because I haven't seen them in a while. I'm really worried about how my family will talk (trust me, gossip in my family gets around, really fast), they'll think that I'm a slut or something, because my fiance and me have such a huge age difference. I know I shouldn't care, but this is my FAMILY and I don't want them to judge. If any mod feels this shouldn't be in the Relationship forum, please move it. |
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Apr 17 2005, 09:48 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
I'm going to be honest when I say that I think that the first impression won't go so great...but if you work and it and try to make them understand....they will....because of his good traits and how he is around you and your daughter and around them....give it time...I'm sure it will be fine...
 But even if it's not...it's your life..you make the decisions and let no one ever make you doubt that. 
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i heart john I'M LEAVING CB AND NOW THIS??!!! Apr 16 2005, 08:20 PM
DaTru KataLYST I think typically the parents will think "...... Apr 16 2005, 08:24 PM
HoodieObsessed QUOTE(DaTru KataLYST @ Apr 16 2005, 5:24 PM)I... Apr 18 2005, 12:59 AM angel_revelation wow... maybe they could accept it over time? go... Apr 16 2005, 08:25 PM XaZnX07 wow sounds like you have a really rough life 4 yea... Apr 16 2005, 08:42 PM xj_liana_tx i think the reason they called is because they wan... Apr 16 2005, 08:45 PM KissMe2408 wow...wow, that is really tough what you're go... Apr 16 2005, 08:47 PM jooleeah That sucks, Felicia At first, they'll probabl... Apr 16 2005, 10:29 PM cookieskater2 I understand that's hard, but why the admirati... Apr 16 2005, 10:50 PM yukichan hmm..
I think your parents want to talk to u again... Apr 16 2005, 10:52 PM Frankie aww. i am so sorry to hear that. well, if i was in... Apr 17 2005, 12:00 AM yanners your family will probably shocked at the fact that... Apr 17 2005, 12:01 AM DaToNeViEtBoI916 when you're 70 and he's 88, there'll b... Apr 17 2005, 12:09 AM mzkandi Wow Felicia...I just want to give you a hug right ... Apr 17 2005, 05:26 AM islandgirl4eva Felicia, I'm so happy that you've found so... Apr 17 2005, 06:23 AM ermfermoo As someone mentioned, age difference is nothing wh... Apr 17 2005, 11:20 AM SuiE family is family, blood is blood.. even though the... Apr 17 2005, 12:04 PM miss barnes wow!!! major age difference! ehh. ... Apr 17 2005, 12:07 PM sammi rules you wow.
you are my hero.
all the power to you. Apr 17 2005, 01:31 PM racoons > you ^^ what sammi said
you need to make sure they tal... Apr 17 2005, 01:40 PM cHuNsAbAbIe012 yea...even if there is gossip u need to give them ... Apr 17 2005, 02:49 PM stephinika i agree with james, let them talk to him a bit bef... Apr 17 2005, 03:29 PM Angel_Cece well. you live on your own and have your own job r... Apr 17 2005, 03:35 PM starlette honestly, you are a beautiful and strong woman, do... Apr 17 2005, 09:53 PM pinayprincess wow... 18 yrs older ............ my parents would... Apr 17 2005, 10:23 PM kryzcoak47luv666 Mad props for raising a child that young, I feel f... Apr 18 2005, 04:16 AM icy_angelx you should let him meet your parents....if they do... Apr 18 2005, 06:46 PM FoOd Your parents seem horrible if they disowned you wh... Apr 18 2005, 06:59 PM stolenantics Who cares what your parents think ok i should chan... Apr 18 2005, 07:05 PM |
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