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I'M LEAVING CB AND NOW THIS??!!!, ARRGGHH!!!
iheartjohn
post Apr 16 2005, 08:20 PM
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Talk about bad timing. As you can see in the signature, I'm leaving Createblog for a while.

Well, I'm sure you all know I am engaged. What you probably don't know is that my fiance is 18 years older than me. (I'm 17 years old.) Of course, my friends have accepted it, he really is a wonderful guy and I've been dating him for about 2 years, and Geena adores him to death, it's just that my family doesn't know how old he is yet.

Most of you know that I had Geena when I was just 13, by another man - the man responsible for me leaving CB ( stubborn.gif ) - and when I had her, my family basically disowned me. I haven't talked to them since.

BUT....

This morning, guess who calls? My parents. They heard I was getting married, blah blah.

They complained that I have been ignoring them, and why should I? I mean, they only ditched me to be on my own, carrying a baby for 9 months, with no money. [/end sarcasm]

But since they are family, and I haven't seen/talked to them in almost 5 years, I decided to let them meet my fiance. The only thing is, I'm worried what they'll think about him. I mean, as previously stated, he is a GREAT guy and I know because Geena is in love with him ( happy.gif ), but my family just won't understand.

They still are criticizing, rude and ashamed about me having Gee, but of course, they're family and I admit that I miss them. Sort of.

John (my fiance) is pretty excited to meet them, even though he thinks he knows that I'm uncomfortable about it. He just thinks I'm uncomfortable because I haven't seen them in a while.

I'm really worried about how my family will talk (trust me, gossip in my family gets around, really fast), they'll think that I'm a slut or something, because my fiance and me have such a huge age difference.

I know I shouldn't care, but this is my FAMILY and I don't want them to judge.


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*mzkandi*
post Apr 17 2005, 05:26 AM
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Wow Felicia...I just want to give you a hug right now. That really touched me. For I want to give you mad props for raising your baby practically on your own. Now that is what I call a strong woman. That sucks that you parents disowned you over you having a child. Sure you were young but I cant imagine how I would have gotten through if I was in the same situation and my family disowned me. Now to your parents...first allow me a moment to let out some agresssion....

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How dare they!! I cant believe that did that and then have to nerve to call you (after what alomst 5 years) and act like its your fault that you have been in contact with them. I really dont think you should be the one to worry about what they think of your fiance at all. You have been through what I think is the worse with them. Getting married is a very exciting time in your life, dont allow them to bring you down. You deserve happiness and to not be judged. Maybe they have changed...I surely would hope so, but if not you need not worry because the simple sad truth is sometimes people never change so there would be no use in you dwelling on fact that they may hate your fiance, or judge you. Sorry this long but that story is so familiar to me (a know two people i went to school with, they got pregnant young, and their families disowned them as well) and it makes me soooooo angry. I really hope all goes well.....
 

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i heart john   I'M LEAVING CB AND NOW THIS??!!!   Apr 16 2005, 08:20 PM
DaTru KataLYST   I think typically the parents will think "......   Apr 16 2005, 08:24 PM
HoodieObsessed   QUOTE(DaTru KataLYST @ Apr 16 2005, 5:24 PM)I...   Apr 18 2005, 12:59 AM
angel_revelation   wow... maybe they could accept it over time? go...   Apr 16 2005, 08:25 PM
XaZnX07   wow sounds like you have a really rough life 4 yea...   Apr 16 2005, 08:42 PM
xj_liana_tx   i think the reason they called is because they wan...   Apr 16 2005, 08:45 PM
KissMe2408   wow...wow, that is really tough what you're go...   Apr 16 2005, 08:47 PM
jooleeah   That sucks, Felicia At first, they'll probabl...   Apr 16 2005, 10:29 PM
cookieskater2   I understand that's hard, but why the admirati...   Apr 16 2005, 10:50 PM
yukichan   hmm.. I think your parents want to talk to u again...   Apr 16 2005, 10:52 PM
Frankie   aww. i am so sorry to hear that. well, if i was in...   Apr 17 2005, 12:00 AM
yanners   your family will probably shocked at the fact that...   Apr 17 2005, 12:01 AM
DaToNeViEtBoI916   when you're 70 and he's 88, there'll b...   Apr 17 2005, 12:09 AM
mzkandi   Wow Felicia...I just want to give you a hug right ...   Apr 17 2005, 05:26 AM
islandgirl4eva   Felicia, I'm so happy that you've found so...   Apr 17 2005, 06:23 AM
ermfermoo   As someone mentioned, age difference is nothing wh...   Apr 17 2005, 11:20 AM
SuiE   family is family, blood is blood.. even though the...   Apr 17 2005, 12:04 PM
miss barnes   wow!!! major age difference! ehh. ...   Apr 17 2005, 12:07 PM
sammi rules you   wow. you are my hero. all the power to you.   Apr 17 2005, 01:31 PM
racoons > you   ^^ what sammi said you need to make sure they tal...   Apr 17 2005, 01:40 PM
cHuNsAbAbIe012   yea...even if there is gossip u need to give them ...   Apr 17 2005, 02:49 PM
stephinika   i agree with james, let them talk to him a bit bef...   Apr 17 2005, 03:29 PM
Angel_Cece   well. you live on your own and have your own job r...   Apr 17 2005, 03:35 PM
Shattered_Hope   I'm going to be honest when I say that I think...   Apr 17 2005, 09:48 PM
starlette   honestly, you are a beautiful and strong woman, do...   Apr 17 2005, 09:53 PM
pinayprincess   wow... 18 yrs older ............ my parents would...   Apr 17 2005, 10:23 PM
kryzcoak47luv666   Mad props for raising a child that young, I feel f...   Apr 18 2005, 04:16 AM
icy_angelx   you should let him meet your parents....if they do...   Apr 18 2005, 06:46 PM
FoOd   Your parents seem horrible if they disowned you wh...   Apr 18 2005, 06:59 PM
stolenantics   Who cares what your parents think ok i should chan...   Apr 18 2005, 07:05 PM


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