I'M LEAVING CB AND NOW THIS??!!!, ARRGGHH!!! |
 Apr 16 2005, 08:20 PM
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yerp!  Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454  |
Talk about bad timing. As you can see in the signature, I'm leaving Createblog for a while.
Well, I'm sure you all know I am engaged. What you probably don't know is that my fiance is 18 years older than me. (I'm 17 years old.) Of course, my friends have accepted it, he really is a wonderful guy and I've been dating him for about 2 years, and Geena adores him to death, it's just that my family doesn't know how old he is yet. Most of you know that I had Geena when I was just 13, by another man - the man responsible for me leaving CB (  ) - and when I had her, my family basically disowned me. I haven't talked to them since. BUT.... This morning, guess who calls? My parents. They heard I was getting married, blah blah. They complained that I have been ignoring them, and why should I? I mean, they only ditched me to be on my own, carrying a baby for 9 months, with no money. [/end sarcasm] But since they are family, and I haven't seen/talked to them in almost 5 years, I decided to let them meet my fiance. The only thing is, I'm worried what they'll think about him. I mean, as previously stated, he is a GREAT guy and I know because Geena is in love with him (  ), but my family just won't understand. They still are criticizing, rude and ashamed about me having Gee, but of course, they're family and I admit that I miss them. Sort of. John (my fiance) is pretty excited to meet them, even though he thinks he knows that I'm uncomfortable about it. He just thinks I'm uncomfortable because I haven't seen them in a while. I'm really worried about how my family will talk (trust me, gossip in my family gets around, really fast), they'll think that I'm a slut or something, because my fiance and me have such a huge age difference. I know I shouldn't care, but this is my FAMILY and I don't want them to judge. If any mod feels this shouldn't be in the Relationship forum, please move it. |
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Apr 16 2005, 08:25 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
wow... maybe they could accept it over time?
 good luck  after all they're family, and should still love you. i mean, you're their child! (talking about your parents btw lol)
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i heart john I'M LEAVING CB AND NOW THIS??!!! Apr 16 2005, 08:20 PM
DaTru KataLYST I think typically the parents will think "...... Apr 16 2005, 08:24 PM
HoodieObsessed QUOTE(DaTru KataLYST @ Apr 16 2005, 5:24 PM)I... Apr 18 2005, 12:59 AM XaZnX07 wow sounds like you have a really rough life 4 yea... Apr 16 2005, 08:42 PM xj_liana_tx i think the reason they called is because they wan... Apr 16 2005, 08:45 PM KissMe2408 wow...wow, that is really tough what you're go... Apr 16 2005, 08:47 PM jooleeah That sucks, Felicia At first, they'll probabl... Apr 16 2005, 10:29 PM cookieskater2 I understand that's hard, but why the admirati... Apr 16 2005, 10:50 PM yukichan hmm..
I think your parents want to talk to u again... Apr 16 2005, 10:52 PM Frankie aww. i am so sorry to hear that. well, if i was in... Apr 17 2005, 12:00 AM yanners your family will probably shocked at the fact that... Apr 17 2005, 12:01 AM DaToNeViEtBoI916 when you're 70 and he's 88, there'll b... Apr 17 2005, 12:09 AM mzkandi Wow Felicia...I just want to give you a hug right ... Apr 17 2005, 05:26 AM islandgirl4eva Felicia, I'm so happy that you've found so... Apr 17 2005, 06:23 AM ermfermoo As someone mentioned, age difference is nothing wh... Apr 17 2005, 11:20 AM SuiE family is family, blood is blood.. even though the... Apr 17 2005, 12:04 PM miss barnes wow!!! major age difference! ehh. ... Apr 17 2005, 12:07 PM sammi rules you wow.
you are my hero.
all the power to you. Apr 17 2005, 01:31 PM racoons > you ^^ what sammi said
you need to make sure they tal... Apr 17 2005, 01:40 PM cHuNsAbAbIe012 yea...even if there is gossip u need to give them ... Apr 17 2005, 02:49 PM stephinika i agree with james, let them talk to him a bit bef... Apr 17 2005, 03:29 PM Angel_Cece well. you live on your own and have your own job r... Apr 17 2005, 03:35 PM Shattered_Hope I'm going to be honest when I say that I think... Apr 17 2005, 09:48 PM starlette honestly, you are a beautiful and strong woman, do... Apr 17 2005, 09:53 PM pinayprincess wow... 18 yrs older ............ my parents would... Apr 17 2005, 10:23 PM kryzcoak47luv666 Mad props for raising a child that young, I feel f... Apr 18 2005, 04:16 AM icy_angelx you should let him meet your parents....if they do... Apr 18 2005, 06:46 PM FoOd Your parents seem horrible if they disowned you wh... Apr 18 2005, 06:59 PM stolenantics Who cares what your parents think ok i should chan... Apr 18 2005, 07:05 PM |
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