Friend with Benifits, Need advice about what I should do |
 Apr 15 2005, 05:21 PM
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 Creative yet Satisfying BLAH  Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 126,666  |
I've been sleeping with this guy for like 4 months. All our relationship is just SEX! Thats all!
I have let Wayyyy to many emotions get involved and I started to care about him.. He ignores me until it's convienent for him and he's horny. I want him so bad and it's driving me insane.. I cry all the time over him and have been horribley depressed. I can't tell him the truth.. or I mean... I want to but I don't know EXACTLY what to say.. I dont want to push him away and I dont want to be mean and make him mad.. Any advice would be wonderful.. Thanks. ~mandabear 
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Apr 15 2005, 11:37 PM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
hey .. he's just a friend with benefits.
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Apr 16 2005, 12:30 AM
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Creative yet Satisfying BLAH Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 126,666 |
QUOTE(lilangelgurlpnai @ Apr 15 2005, 9:37 PM) hey .. he's just a friend with benefits.  Thank you... This is what I'm trying to say.. Ive let to many emotions get involved.. I cant just dump him like that and tell him NO MORE SEX!! As much as i really really want to and I want him to stop hurting me I just can't.. It's not that easy.. I lost my virgnity to this guy and for you guys who are sitting there saying that I'm being stupid for caring about him.. YOU DONT UNDERSTAND!! I want him to know I care about him.... but is it worth it? I just don't know anymore...... 
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Apr 16 2005, 06:03 PM
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 Its hard for me to tell you Group: Member Posts: 734 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,326 |
QUOTE(mandabear05 @ Apr 16 2005, 6:30 AM) Thank you... This is what I'm trying to say.. Ive let to many emotions get involved.. I cant just dump him like that and tell him NO MORE SEX!! As much as i really really want to and I want him to stop hurting me I just can't.. It's not that easy.. I lost my virgnity to this guy and for you guys who are sitting there saying that I'm being stupid for caring about him.. YOU DONT UNDERSTAND!! I want him to know I care about him.... but is it worth it? I just don't know anymore...... If he ended up getting his sexual needs from someone else I bet he could easily say 'NO MORE SEX' to you because he has no emotional feelings for you. He comes to you when he wants to 'release his load'. Like you said he ignores you till its convenient for him. He's not worth your time! If it keeps going this way.. then your gonna get deeper feelings for him and in the end, you'll be more hurt than you would now. |
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mandabear05 Friend with Benifits Apr 15 2005, 05:21 PM
i can break If your relationship is only based off that...you ... Apr 15 2005, 05:25 PM Teesa you have to tell him the truth and exactly how you... Apr 15 2005, 05:28 PM AngelicEyz00 Honey, go to someone else, and get over this guy. ... Apr 15 2005, 05:28 PM Frankie you need to break up with him because all he obvio... Apr 15 2005, 05:32 PM Cake. Ew, break up with him. Apr 15 2005, 06:47 PM InLove_x Once feelings become involved in a friends with be... Apr 15 2005, 06:50 PM YoGrandpaIsFine Horny guys these days..
Hun, hurry and dump him,... Apr 15 2005, 06:52 PM Just AJ While I'm not knocking FWBs, this seriously do... Apr 15 2005, 06:57 PM strwbrrykiwi23 he's definitely not worth your time.
in the en... Apr 15 2005, 07:10 PM Just AJ So, mandabear, do you get what everyone has said, ... Apr 15 2005, 07:12 PM Shattered_Hope Why would you want to be with someone who just wan... Apr 15 2005, 07:58 PM dreamerOi having just sex and expecting no feelings to surfa... Apr 15 2005, 08:04 PM _sarcastic_ you guys are in a relationship only because of sex... Apr 15 2005, 08:23 PM mzkandi Thats the trouble with having this kind of relatio... Apr 15 2005, 08:27 PM pinayprincess I DONT MEAN TO BE MEAN BUT THATS REALLY DUMB.. HAV... Apr 15 2005, 10:27 PM B1onde_1ns1de well i guess i would go with the other people and ... Apr 15 2005, 10:59 PM blowpops69 thats what you get for having a friends with benif... Apr 16 2005, 10:59 AM
mandabear05 QUOTE(blowpops69 @ Apr 16 2005, 8:59 AM)thats... Apr 16 2005, 12:10 PM XaZnX07 wow sounds like hes just useing you for sex i thin... Apr 16 2005, 06:09 PM mandabear05 QUOTE(XaZnX07 @ Apr 16 2005, 4:09 PM)wow soun... Apr 17 2005, 12:58 AM yukichan The more you are with that guy, the more you are g... Apr 17 2005, 01:20 AM yanners stop having sex with him and get over it. Apr 17 2005, 03:02 AM shattered_dream Ｉ think ｙｏｕ... Apr 17 2005, 09:03 AM lilliannnn hmm... been there, done that = broken heart
oh we... Apr 17 2005, 03:47 PM xoxo_koala_kisses_ Dumb the horn dog. You're far too young to be ... Apr 17 2005, 04:15 PM icy_angelx you should like say "Hey do you feel a lil bi... Apr 17 2005, 05:04 PM |
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