i need advice help! |
 Apr 16 2005, 01:49 AM
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I like this guy (lets call him Bob) but Bob likes this other girl (lets call her Jill). Even though Bob says he doesnt like Jill I know he does. Jill doesnt like him, plus she only flirts with Bob because shes bored. Anyway theres also another thing, alot of ppl dont like Bob. So i cant tell my friends, at least half of them, that I like him cause they'll be all like "why? Bobs a jerk" but they dont understand where he's coming from and it pisses me off. I've only told one of my friends because she understands where Bob's coming from. Also Bob's younger than me and even though to me age doesnt matter i've heard that alot of guys dont like dating girls older than them because it makes them feel like outta power. Tonight we were at this pool party and Bob was kinda just lying around, didnt swim at all. Jill was about to be thrown into the pool by another guy and Bob tried to stop him. But Jill was all "get away from me" Bob stormed out. I followed him out to his car and he was crying cause he was sick and tired of all the shit people were giving him. I helped him get through it but afterwards he just went up and talked to Jill. grrrrr
So ya basically the guy I like, whom everybody hates and is younger than me, likes another girl. What should I do? |
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Apr 16 2005, 09:13 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
There's nothing you can do...
you flirt...are there for him when he needs you to be.. but he ends up going to her afterwards..even though she's part of why he's upset.. This means that he sees you as a friend....I doubt he ever saw it as anything more..  Move on...because there are some people that never change....and besides..it seems like he's really interested in this girl...and you have little or no chance to change this...I guess you could settle for friendship now...and think more later... You can't force a guy to stop liking someone...and like you.. |
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fuzz4 i need advice help! Apr 16 2005, 01:49 AM
K!$$ First of all, this has nothing to do with your fri... Apr 16 2005, 01:55 AM yukichan if you like bob, tell him...idk..and i dont think ... Apr 16 2005, 02:10 AM
kryzcoak47luv666 QUOTE(nekochan1018 @ Apr 16 2005, 2:10 AM)if ... Apr 16 2005, 10:49 AM _sarcastic_ it doesn't matter what your friends think it... Apr 16 2005, 06:42 AM pingpang_0811 Jill flirt with him, you can flirt with him too. b... Apr 16 2005, 07:05 AM strwbrrykiwi23 show him that you're always there for him...
b... Apr 16 2005, 07:46 AM Nicolatofu QUOTE(strwbrrykiwi23 @ Apr 16 2005, 8:46 AM)s... Apr 16 2005, 09:20 AM sweetdreamsx3 Start flirting. :] Apr 16 2005, 08:15 AM XaZnX07 hmm you really just have to help him be his friend... Apr 16 2005, 08:50 AM fuzz4 thanks for all the advice guys! I guess I... Apr 16 2005, 09:45 AM ermfermoo I guess this should be closed now? Apr 16 2005, 10:36 AM icy_angelx YOu should try to be good friends then after he st... Apr 17 2005, 05:10 PM |
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