should i break up with him?, he's mai first Options

[Azn_Angel13]

okay me and mai boyfriend have just hooked up for a week. we're each other's first too. and in the beginning he and i were like holding hands and hugging and stuff. but then after that we nvr do anything. we were good friends too before we hooked up and would talk to each otehr a lot. but now ever since we hooked up, we barely talk to each other. should i break up with him?

[AsianUniQ]

Do not break up with him because hes too quiet. iF YOU DO Bbreak up with him, things arent gona be the same either. bcuz freindship arent the same after a relationship. confused? let me clear it up.

first off, it is a totally natural process to be quiet at first. Think about the first time you met him b4 yall became freinds. Thins were quiet then. Its the same concept when you both are goign out, becasue ur beginning something new and you will soon learn alot more about him that you culdnt when you were just freinds. Like everyone says, give it time.

I guess the reason why things are quiet and you didn like it is because when you were freinds, you can pretty much tell him everything. You could even tell him your guy problems?? But then, he became your bf, wut if you have a guy problem with him, you surely couoldnt talk to him about ur guyproblems wen hes ur bf right??? thats how weird it gets. I guess when you are in a relationship, maters of issues arent about you anymore, its about *us*. Thats teh beauty of being in a relationship. Thigns are quieter because you both became emotional and so honest that you cant tell each other how u really feel as freinds.....but you show how u feel with the touch of his hands or when he holds you........verbal context is now transfered into physical contacts............i hope you understand, its a beautiful thing to expereince, nothin to worry about