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ix3youx33
post Apr 7 2005, 10:21 PM
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is there a way that i could make my boyfriend happier? like he seems happy and all when i see him like we walk home together after school and he walks me TO school and we hold hands and everything but like sometimes he just seems so depressed does anyone know why maybe cuz like sometimes when hes all sad and then like when i'm with him hes like not sad anymore and then like its really weird.. and sometimes when hes with his friends hes happy and like ok iono wat i jus said but like yeah help !!
 
 
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AsianUniQ
post Apr 14 2005, 01:49 AM
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first of all, giving him a blowjob or offering sex would only please him. Not make him happy. He'll forget about stress, but it doesn't mean that he will be any happier. So our problem is to make him happy, not distract him from being so.

second of all, she is as clueless as us. That is why she post this entry, and requires a "helpful" reply. And that's wut ill do.

boys ared weird. They had something like a split personality. So he's two differnt person when either being around you or his freinds. when he's around friends, they tend to share a common interest, which helps in expressing who he is. but when he's around you, things are a little more mutual. Becuase he's actually sharing his time with you. If he's the type of bf who would always tell you everything, then you shouldn't worry bout him. He's not as sad as you think. Maybe you are over exaggerating a lil bit. When im with my gf, i seem so quiet and sad. But actually i'm really happy, becuase I get to spend that precious time with her, and nothing else matters. But anywyas, if he's not the type that would tell u everything, then its up to you to confront, so...do your job as a gf. And we'll see
 

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ix3youx33   boyfriend is sad   Apr 7 2005, 10:21 PM
barelyy_coherent   You're asking US why he's sad? I don't...   Apr 7 2005, 10:22 PM
Chii   maybe he wants to talk to you or take you out some...   Apr 7 2005, 10:23 PM
_sarcastic_   ask him what's going on. he's happy when ...   Apr 7 2005, 10:50 PM
ix3youx33   no like but usually he all sad when hes with his f...   Apr 7 2005, 11:00 PM
ichiban   You're the girlfriend so try asking him what...   Apr 7 2005, 11:00 PM
No1_2_NoBody13   My boifriend is like that...like he has really big...   Apr 8 2005, 12:12 AM
--x who0ps   mm, jst talk to him & ask why he was depressed...   Apr 8 2005, 12:59 AM
yukichan   talk to him..it could be anything..friends, family...   Apr 8 2005, 02:02 AM
bravodancer04   QUOTE(nekochan1018 @ Apr 8 2005, 1:02 AM)talk...   Apr 11 2005, 11:47 AM
AznVi3tGrl   talk to him how in the worl are we supose to know ...   Apr 8 2005, 10:06 PM
Loserwithstyle   Talk to him about it. Tell him that he can open up...   Apr 10 2005, 12:36 AM
mzkandi   ummm talk to him...my psychic powers are not worki...   Apr 10 2005, 02:43 AM
x_angawhomps   You need to ask him why he's sad.. you need to...   Apr 10 2005, 02:46 AM
Frankie   i agree with them ^ up there. how would we know? b...   Apr 10 2005, 02:47 PM
laur3nw   Talk to him. We wouldn't know why he's sa...   Apr 10 2005, 04:40 PM
Dark Saga   haha.. Get him some Jack In The Box in the morning...   Apr 10 2005, 05:02 PM
vampireduster   talk to him about it. just be there for him. if he...   Apr 10 2005, 08:44 PM
Shortiiex   you can give him space or talk to him or offer sex   Apr 10 2005, 08:54 PM
cHuNsAbAbIe012   ask him if he wants to talk about watever is going...   Apr 10 2005, 11:02 PM
LittleLulu   ask him be like "hey, well i've noticed ...   Apr 10 2005, 11:04 PM
cleec   Woah weird, my ex boyfriend was just like that. He...   Apr 11 2005, 06:22 PM
FoOd   If you noticed something with your boyfriend, just...   Apr 11 2005, 06:24 PM
someflipguy   Tell him he better be happy or you will dump him...   Apr 12 2005, 09:25 AM
starlette   QUOTE(someflipguy @ Apr 12 2005, 9:25 AM)Tell...   Apr 12 2005, 09:38 AM
thaichic192   Something like family problems or something, etc. ...   Apr 12 2005, 09:08 PM
kryzcoak47luv666   We can't tell you why he's sad, we don...   Apr 12 2005, 09:50 PM
Rachel is love   How the hell do you expect us to help?   Apr 12 2005, 09:52 PM
Jordan Inc.   well, you should first start try figuring out what...   Apr 13 2005, 02:05 AM
pingpang_0811   u should find the problem out. u said he's hap...   Apr 13 2005, 09:02 AM
joejoe22802   WHoa THAT Sounds so much like me lmao well when im...   Apr 14 2005, 01:11 AM
AsianUniQ   first of all, giving him a blowjob or offering sex...   Apr 14 2005, 01:49 AM
icy_angelx   maybe he doesn't like to be alone....or maybe ...   Apr 18 2005, 07:22 PM
rockbass60   its seems from what your saying is hes happy when ...   Apr 18 2005, 07:27 PM
blah122986   maybe he's havein problems at home or somethin...   Apr 19 2005, 08:21 AM


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