feelings of jealousy..., or something else? |
 Apr 12 2005, 03:20 PM
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argh i really need some help here... ive been going out with this girl now for about 2 months. she is my first girlfriend, but im not her first boyfriend. she plays piano and all that, and has dreams of becoming a profesional pianist. anyway, she used to go out with this guy who is alot older than her. she was 15 at the time and he was 26. they supposedly broke, but she still goes over his house all the time. (in my opinion she was head over heels for this guy, or so she thought.) i knew that she went over his house all the time, but didnt know that he was her ex, i had to find this out on my own... when i confronted her about it she said that she goes over there for her music and stuff because he has the technology that she cant get anywhere else blah blah blah.. then came the whole "what, u dont trust me?" thing, that id rather not get into detail with..
now im having all these feelings and stuff that i never had before. she seems to spend all this time over there during the week, or atleast i believe its his house, never telling me what she does, and i only spend time with her on the weekends (aside from school) unless SHE wants to do something... i never really ask her where she is going after school, because i dont want to feel like im interrogating her, or trying to control her, but i just want to know sometimes so i dont have to worry... i dont know whats going on... i think im having feelings of jealousy, but they arnt without justification... i really need some help here, what should i do? and if i talk to her, what should i say? because ive already brought it up before, and dont want to feel like i dont trust her (which im not entirely sure if i do or not) |
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Apr 13 2005, 10:45 PM
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just spill the beans, even though she says that dumb line... [i hate that line] just say 'besides the fact that I DO trust you, please tell me whats really going on.. blah blah blah..." we both know that relationship is all about trust but just tell the truth that you have been feeling suspicious or something, just comfront her -- thats how things work out in a relationship --even though she makes those 'excuses'
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SpedMonkee feelings of jealousy... Apr 12 2005, 03:20 PM
xxaznxgurlxx to me , i think that ur grlfrd is saying that so y... Apr 12 2005, 03:31 PM InLove_x Ask her if you could some time together during the... Apr 12 2005, 03:42 PM _sarcastic_ i can kind of relate to how you feel, my bf hangs ... Apr 12 2005, 03:49 PM YoGrandpaIsFine Hey, you're not alone, I was in the same situa... Apr 12 2005, 04:06 PM xd0rkette You sound like you don't trust her... but don... Apr 12 2005, 04:30 PM silver rain Yeah, I kinda know how you feel. I think you shoul... Apr 12 2005, 06:54 PM Lightner obviously she doesnt feel secure telling such thin... Apr 12 2005, 06:58 PM --x who0ps hmm, maybe one day you could go- oh, can i go over... Apr 12 2005, 09:26 PM
K!$$ QUOTE(--x who0ps @ Apr 13 2005, 10:... Apr 13 2005, 06:51 AM pingpang_0811 i think u dun trust her is becoz your relationship... Apr 13 2005, 08:52 AM shewasradiant you have to ask questions to get answers. so ask. ... Apr 13 2005, 06:19 PM SpedMonkee yeah i know... believe me he is way older than 18.... Apr 13 2005, 07:22 PM AsianUniQ If I were you, and in doubt. I would immediately b... Apr 14 2005, 02:17 AM SpedMonkee ok, now the situtation is a bit different. yesterd... May 2 2005, 09:25 AM iNyCxShoRT QUOTEhmm, maybe one day you could go- oh, can i go... May 8 2005, 08:29 PM |
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