not the first, finding out Options

[*islandgirl4eva*]

The first time my boyfriend and I were physically intimate, we got carried away and I started trembling (I HATE it when I do that). He looked down on me and asked me if I was nervous. I told him I was. He asked me if I was a virgin and I told him yes, because I am.

Then I did something that I shouldn't have done. I asked him if HE was a virgin. He wasn't. For some reason after hearing that, my heart broke a little bit. I pushed him away and started crying. He came and held me and apologized. Eventually I got over it, but whenever we get intimate I always wonder if I measure up to the other women.

Have you ever found out that you were not you lover's first partner? How did you feel?

[kryzcoak47luv666]

Well me and my bf were both virgins
in fact this is both of ours first relationship
and if I found out different I would be heart-broken, but it would be more that he lied to me, and I would always ask myself whether I measure up, and wonder if he thinks about her when we are intimate, but I know I'm the only woman he's been with, and I'm thankful, because I would feel weird not sharing something that big alone, it would hard to go through losing your virginity alone....