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thinking she doesnt care.., about me
SpedMonkee
post Apr 7 2005, 03:15 PM
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ive been going out with this girl for about 2 months now. it seemed like everythingw as going well, then all of sudden everything started going bad.. we would keep this notebook and write to each other then give it to the other in between classes.. then all of a sudden she stopped writing in it..since then she has sort of drawn herself away a little...i only see her in between classes now..

it seems like she is using me alot too..it seems like im her scape goat for anything. when she is out where she isnt supposed to be she tells her parents that she is out with me, when of course she isnt.. and she got some money and bought herself an ipod shuffle, but didnt want her parents to find out how she got the money(nothing illegal or bad to get it), so she told them that i bought it for her..

she never calls anymore, i cant call her because im never sure if she is telling her parents she is with me at the time or what, i barely see her.. and the weird thing is that before we started going out i would ALWAYS see her on the train afterschool..but all of sudden when we start going out she decides to take the bus all the time after school...
i dont think has anything to do with it but in all the time we have been going out we havnt made out or even french kissed once...everytime we are in her room and im about to make a move she always does something stupid like play cards, play her piano, or look through her photo album (ive seen it 7 fking times now!!).

i dont know whats going on really...
even if no one responds to this or has anything helpful to say it was still good to get what i had to say out..

(and yes i plan on talking to her about it if this keeps up)
 
 
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*jooleeah*
post Apr 11 2005, 09:29 PM
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Talk to her about how you feel. You know, maybe she just wants some space. But if it's not like that, then she may be using you. Just talk to her....and if she really is using you, then break up with her. She's not worth it.
 

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SpedMonkee   thinking she doesnt care..   Apr 7 2005, 03:15 PM
whyohsokind443   break up with her her. its obvious she doesnt care...   Apr 7 2005, 03:25 PM
UrF4vL!pGl0Zz1212   good, talk to her! and then, if she has no val...   Apr 7 2005, 03:46 PM
SpedMonkee   but im feeling the same way i was when i wasnt in ...   Apr 7 2005, 03:48 PM
ermfermoo   Dude, this is my view. Your relationship was a goo...   Apr 7 2005, 03:48 PM
liloandstitchx3   QUOTE(ermfermoo @ Apr 7 2005, 12:48 PM)Dude, ...   Apr 7 2005, 10:04 PM
InLove_x   Talk to her. If she doesn't have a good explan...   Apr 7 2005, 04:44 PM
Shattered_Hope   If she doesn't care..and you are aware of it.....   Apr 7 2005, 05:28 PM
silver rain   Yeah, talk to her first. But if she has no good ex...   Apr 7 2005, 06:29 PM
SpedMonkee   the only thing that she might even give me a reply...   Apr 7 2005, 06:51 PM
xBEBE   break up with her cause it really does sound like ...   Apr 7 2005, 07:25 PM
Chii   whoa, what is your problem? maybe she doesn't ...   Apr 7 2005, 07:52 PM
LiL_LDY   WELL .. LIKE EVERYONE HAS BEEN SAYING, YOU SHOULD ...   Apr 7 2005, 07:59 PM
WrathOfOnigo   You poor boy please break up with her. She seems ...   Apr 7 2005, 08:06 PM
xlaydee_v   what a piece of shiet =x lols.. what a nice girlfr...   Apr 7 2005, 10:17 PM
extravaganzahh_   boy shes using you. get out quick. you dont deserv...   Apr 8 2005, 08:04 AM
mouse_3k   dont be to pressed and obsessive. Its a real turno...   Apr 8 2005, 04:02 PM
lilshelil   Well, shes not exactly using you if she told her p...   Apr 8 2005, 05:27 PM
xxaznxgurlxx   its obviously that she was using you to get what s...   Apr 8 2005, 06:05 PM
FiLapanese   well yeah ok she might be usein you and all...OR s...   Apr 8 2005, 09:50 PM
illuminessence   You definitely need to end it with her. She doesn...   Apr 8 2005, 11:09 PM
xlovenyoux   talk to her NOW, dont wait because time will only ...   Apr 8 2005, 11:43 PM
YoGrandpaIsFine   Break up with her. She's using you.   Apr 9 2005, 08:13 PM
Chii   it's funny that so many people don't reall...   Apr 9 2005, 08:22 PM
aera   ask her why shes doing this and if you dont think ...   Apr 9 2005, 09:38 PM
cHuNsAbAbIe012   it just seems like she lost interest but she doesn...   Apr 9 2005, 11:45 PM
x3__iGiVEup   Tell her how you feel. Tell her you are on the ver...   Apr 10 2005, 02:52 PM
vampireduster   she doesnt care for you, find someone who does   Apr 11 2005, 09:19 PM
jooleeah   Talk to her about how you feel. You know, maybe sh...   Apr 11 2005, 09:29 PM
xXMomoBubbleTeaXx   She either likes yu alot and is acting shy by avoi...   Apr 11 2005, 09:58 PM


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