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| *islandgirl4eva* |
 Apr 11 2005, 12:07 AM
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The first time my boyfriend and I were physically intimate, we got carried away and I started trembling (I HATE it when I do that). He looked down on me and asked me if I was nervous. I told him I was. He asked me if I was a virgin and I told him yes, because I am.
Then I did something that I shouldn't have done. I asked him if HE was a virgin. He wasn't. For some reason after hearing that, my heart broke a little bit. I pushed him away and started crying. He came and held me and apologized. Eventually I got over it, but whenever we get intimate I always wonder if I measure up to the other women. Have you ever found out that you were not you lover's first partner? How did you feel? |
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Apr 11 2005, 07:55 PM
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 hi. call me linda.  Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Well, I know how you feel. Even though my boyfriend has told me several times that he's a virgin, he was more experienced than I was so I'd always wonder about his past and stuff like that. However, that led to fights and stuff, so now, I don't think about it that much because he's choosing to be with me and no one else, and it's not like I can change what he did in the past. But yeah, it did hurt at first when I realized how much more experience my boyfriend was than I.
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islandgirl4eva not the first Apr 11 2005, 12:07 AM
YoGrandpaIsFine Eh, all my bfs were virgins; I'm in Middle Sch... Apr 11 2005, 12:13 AM mzkandi i dont like to share my personal experiences onlin... Apr 11 2005, 12:16 AM dani41790 ive never experienced that before. i guess its bec... Apr 11 2005, 12:31 AM stephinika i have in a way experienced that, but not to that ... Apr 11 2005, 01:06 AM extravaganzahh_ i think it was right of you to feel bad. afterall ... Apr 11 2005, 03:55 AM InLove_x First bf was a virgin
One now wasn't but no... Apr 11 2005, 05:15 AM Rachel is love Well for me it was the other way around. He was th... Apr 11 2005, 06:52 AM illuminessence I don't think it's fair of you to judge hi... Apr 11 2005, 06:57 AM
islandgirl4eva QUOTE(illuminessence @ Apr 11 2005, 6:57 AM)I... Apr 11 2005, 03:43 PM ohBrian nick lachey wasnt virgin but damn JESSICA WAS... Apr 11 2005, 08:24 AM bravodancer04 Oh god..well..I`ve done more than my bf, and e... Apr 11 2005, 11:37 AM Frankie aww. i feel bad for you. well, not bad, but...you ... Apr 11 2005, 05:56 PM aera it depends on age sometimes. and it's ok as lo... Apr 11 2005, 08:27 PM Chii my boyfriend hated my sexual past...i mean i was a... Apr 11 2005, 08:35 PM vampireduster i just try not to think about that.....yeah i just... Apr 11 2005, 08:43 PM kryzcoak47luv666 Well me and my bf were both virgins
in fact this i... Apr 12 2005, 01:59 AM someflipguy Shit that is one of the first things I ask, just o... Apr 12 2005, 09:28 AM starlette to me, as long as they dont have any diseases, I d... Apr 12 2005, 09:31 AM mouse_3k Make sure he doesnt have NE STDs or w/e. And remem... Apr 12 2005, 02:49 PM xd0rkette Aw. Well, I never had an "official" boyf... Apr 12 2005, 04:34 PM WrathOfOnigo It's ok, when you get older you're gonig t... Apr 12 2005, 07:41 PM XaZnX07 yeah it has lol yeah i got mad for like a day but... Apr 12 2005, 10:34 PM yellowgurl im kinda young still so ya. i guess for you to hav... Apr 12 2005, 10:37 PM IamRad i'd get hurt.. but id be happy that im with hi... Apr 13 2005, 03:04 PM punkymoke i'm a virgin.. i'm saving it all for my hu... Apr 14 2005, 08:43 AM |
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