should we break up? |
 Apr 16 2004, 06:01 AM
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I've been with my BF for 4 months now. It's long distance.
He told me that he loved me. I told him I felt the same. That was a long time ago. I guess after winter passed, we both matured. We have lest to talk about now and we're so busy with what's going on in our lives. So now I'm beginnning to doubt if I really do love him. It's really been bugging me for quite a while. The rasional side of me thinks breaking up with him is for the best, then I can concentrate fully on my studies. But the other part of me doesn't want to break up with him. Maybe I'm selfish. I don't wanna let go of him in case in the end I really do love him. I don't want to be alone again after being with someone who loves me and cares for me. I don't even know if he still feels the same way for me either... Should I break up with him? Or should I stay with him? I'm so confused myself... See this is why I hate love. It screws me up. |
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Apr 17 2004, 08:51 PM
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We had a talk yesterday and decided that we should break up. After my national exam and when he comes back from his Marines training at the end of the year, we'll see if we still have feelings for each other. If we do, then we'll work something up. But that's still a long time more, so iono, our feelings might change...
Isn't it weird? We both love each other, but we choose to be apart, because that's the 'logical' thing to do... I guess it figures since we're both two materielistic (sp?) people... But after we broke up, I have all this flashbacks and they made me cry...  A couple of hours before we broke up, he sang Happy Birthday to me, even though he thought he sucked at singing... He called me Ashley, his future wifey... The very first time he said out loud that he loved me... It was also the last... How happy I felt everytime I opened my email knowing there would be a love email waiting for me... The very first time I received a letter from him...And then I realised, I was never gonna get those things anymore... And that made me cry even more... |
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Winter should we break up? Apr 16 2004, 06:01 AM
f00LisH_h3aRt63 well u need to talk to ur b.f and see where hes at... Apr 16 2004, 06:12 AM Kathleen Yeah, I think it's best to talk to him about h... Apr 16 2004, 09:51 AM jenjan579 well....mmm... maybe you should talk to him about ... Apr 16 2004, 02:42 PM angel-roh like everyone is saying... u shuld talk this to ur... Apr 17 2004, 09:04 AM Scott_Hawk Act real happy and lovey around him and even if he... Apr 17 2004, 09:14 AM conster i think u should ask urself if u still really like... Apr 17 2004, 11:31 AM NvieDi3ai3yGrL you have to speak with him on the matter first. se... Apr 17 2004, 03:08 PM krnxswat I say break up and concentrate on your studies. Apr 17 2004, 07:55 PM ThePrincessofTKD (Winter Posted on Apr 17 2004, 8:51 PM)
QUOTEAnd t... Apr 17 2004, 09:41 PM
kraziegrl QUOTEtrue love always coems back
thats from a kore... Apr 17 2004, 10:17 PM |
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