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 Apr 11 2005, 12:07 AM
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The first time my boyfriend and I were physically intimate, we got carried away and I started trembling (I HATE it when I do that). He looked down on me and asked me if I was nervous. I told him I was. He asked me if I was a virgin and I told him yes, because I am.
Then I did something that I shouldn't have done. I asked him if HE was a virgin. He wasn't. For some reason after hearing that, my heart broke a little bit. I pushed him away and started crying. He came and held me and apologized. Eventually I got over it, but whenever we get intimate I always wonder if I measure up to the other women. Have you ever found out that you were not you lover's first partner? How did you feel? |
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Apr 11 2005, 06:57 AM
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I don't think it's fair of you to judge him by his past or even let his past bother you because you are his present and future right now. He made the decision without you in the picture. When I found one of my boyfriends from the past wasn't a virgin, it didn't bother me because it wasn't fair of me to let that ruin the relationship. Besides, you shouldn't be letting it bother you too much. That just gets you too paranoid and may push him away.
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islandgirl4eva not the first Apr 11 2005, 12:07 AM
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One now wasn't but no... Apr 11 2005, 05:15 AM Rachel is love Well for me it was the other way around. He was th... Apr 11 2005, 06:52 AM
islandgirl4eva QUOTE(illuminessence @ Apr 11 2005, 6:57 AM)I... Apr 11 2005, 03:43 PM ohBrian nick lachey wasnt virgin but damn JESSICA WAS... Apr 11 2005, 08:24 AM bravodancer04 Oh god..well..I`ve done more than my bf, and e... Apr 11 2005, 11:37 AM Frankie aww. i feel bad for you. well, not bad, but...you ... Apr 11 2005, 05:56 PM silver rain Well, I know how you feel. Even though my boyfrien... Apr 11 2005, 07:55 PM aera it depends on age sometimes. and it's ok as lo... Apr 11 2005, 08:27 PM Chii my boyfriend hated my sexual past...i mean i was a... Apr 11 2005, 08:35 PM vampireduster i just try not to think about that.....yeah i just... Apr 11 2005, 08:43 PM kryzcoak47luv666 Well me and my bf were both virgins
in fact this i... Apr 12 2005, 01:59 AM someflipguy Shit that is one of the first things I ask, just o... Apr 12 2005, 09:28 AM starlette to me, as long as they dont have any diseases, I d... Apr 12 2005, 09:31 AM mouse_3k Make sure he doesnt have NE STDs or w/e. And remem... Apr 12 2005, 02:49 PM xd0rkette Aw. Well, I never had an "official" boyf... Apr 12 2005, 04:34 PM WrathOfOnigo It's ok, when you get older you're gonig t... Apr 12 2005, 07:41 PM XaZnX07 yeah it has lol yeah i got mad for like a day but... Apr 12 2005, 10:34 PM yellowgurl im kinda young still so ya. i guess for you to hav... Apr 12 2005, 10:37 PM IamRad i'd get hurt.. but id be happy that im with hi... Apr 13 2005, 03:04 PM punkymoke i'm a virgin.. i'm saving it all for my hu... Apr 14 2005, 08:43 AM |
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