not the first, finding out Options

[*islandgirl4eva*]

The first time my boyfriend and I were physically intimate, we got carried away and I started trembling (I HATE it when I do that). He looked down on me and asked me if I was nervous. I told him I was. He asked me if I was a virgin and I told him yes, because I am.

Then I did something that I shouldn't have done. I asked him if HE was a virgin. He wasn't. For some reason after hearing that, my heart broke a little bit. I pushed him away and started crying. He came and held me and apologized. Eventually I got over it, but whenever we get intimate I always wonder if I measure up to the other women.

Have you ever found out that you were not you lover's first partner? How did you feel?

[Rachel]

Well for me it was the other way around. He was the vigin and I was the non. I tell him it doesn't matter because I am with him now and he is much better. I kind of wished I would have either saved it for him or that I would not have told him...Oh well.

I think that you should just focus on the fact that he is with YOU now, not some whore =)