not the first, finding out Options

[*islandgirl4eva*]

The first time my boyfriend and I were physically intimate, we got carried away and I started trembling (I HATE it when I do that). He looked down on me and asked me if I was nervous. I told him I was. He asked me if I was a virgin and I told him yes, because I am.

Then I did something that I shouldn't have done. I asked him if HE was a virgin. He wasn't. For some reason after hearing that, my heart broke a little bit. I pushed him away and started crying. He came and held me and apologized. Eventually I got over it, but whenever we get intimate I always wonder if I measure up to the other women.

Have you ever found out that you were not you lover's first partner? How did you feel?

[*mzkandi*]

i dont like to share my personal experiences online but i will say its ok if your boyfriend has been with someone else sexually. i can see where you're coming from with questions about whether you measure up to other girls but you really should not worry about that trust me. when he is with you i am sure he is thinking of nobody but you