ShizTalking friend. |
ShizTalking friend. |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 71 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 83,615 ![]() |
Well, I have this friend let's just say Bobbie, and another called Sarah. Sarah and me don't like Bobbie, even though she says that we are her 'real' friends and she can tell anything to us, she still talks shit about me behind my back to Sarah, and Sarah tells me. I mean, I can't do anything about it, because I'm not supposed to knwo about it. And i can't dislike her, because she has a good reputation in school, and it's almost impossible to hate her and still have friends (wierd don't ask). But .. the thing is, i stil want to be her friend, she's nice around me, and she's there for you. but she talks shit about me, about how im annoying and she doesn't like me as much. And when i question her about it she acts completely clue-less. I hate her, but i still want her to like me ... does that make sense? someone tell me what i should do about someone like her.
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![]() Yawn ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 ![]() |
Can you honestly say that she is your true friend if she is talking trash behind ur back? Why would you want to be friends with someone like that. It sounds like you want to remain her friend because she is popular and so it makes you popular and all that highschool crap. You really shouldn't be worried about ur reputation as much. Just be yourself. and don't worry about what people think. If you do that, you may have half the number of friends as you have now, but you'll know twice more about the true meaning of friendship. Does that make sense to you? It;s better to have just a few true, good friends, then have hundreds of fake ones that you have to put on an act around.
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