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My boifriend and I, What to do???
No1_2_NoBody13
post Apr 4 2005, 09:59 PM
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OK so me and my boifriend justin have been going out for a few weeks...onlying seeing each other on weekends cuz we go to different schools this year...well im virgen and hes not...and the way hes been talking latly...i feel like hes gonna presure me into sex...and i dont wanna do that...the last guy i said no to broke up with me...and i dont want him to break up with me cuz its happend to a friend of mine and she was heartbroken...and i really like justin...so i dont wanna say yes and i dont wanna say no...both for good reasons...so sum1 plz help me out... blink.gif
 
 
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KissMe2408
post Apr 10 2005, 03:42 AM
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I know you like the guy and all, but no guy is worth it if he tries to pressure you into having sex. He should respect the fact that you want to remain a virgin. If he dumps you because you won't have sex with him, then you are better off because you don't need to be around a guy like that. You need a guy that will respect you and care for you. Not one that is going to force you into having sex. I know it would be painful if he dumps you because of this, but it would be 1000 times more painful if you gave up ur virginity to this guy and he dumps you afterwards.
 

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No1_2_NoBody13   My boifriend and I   Apr 4 2005, 09:59 PM
Rachel is love   Wow, take a typing lesson and get better taste in ...   Apr 4 2005, 10:02 PM
extravaganzahh_   QUOTE(xxcrazyjewxx @ Apr 5 2005, 11:02 AM)If ...   Apr 9 2005, 05:32 AM
tainted_faerie   it's BOYfriend for one thing and Virgin for an...   Apr 4 2005, 10:04 PM
SimplicityGirl   If he loves you for you, then he won't make yo...   Apr 4 2005, 10:36 PM
xd0rkette   QUOTE(SimplicityGirl @ Apr 4 2005, 10:36 PM)I...   Apr 4 2005, 10:52 PM
angel_revelation   i agree with everyone ^^^ dont do anything that y...   Apr 4 2005, 10:50 PM
Shattered_Hope   If you don't want to have sex with him then do...   Apr 4 2005, 11:26 PM
WhiteLotus*   Clearly if he loved and respected you, he wouldn...   Apr 4 2005, 11:32 PM
dani41790   Just tell him you dont want to have sex yet. If he...   Apr 5 2005, 12:55 AM
iloveathrun<3   chica, if he really loved u he wouldnt MAKE U HAVE...   Apr 5 2005, 01:08 AM
yukichan   if u dont want to, dont.. if he dumps u b/c of tha...   Apr 5 2005, 02:27 AM
Shadow_Valkyrie   boys only wants sex.. if you dnt let him have it w...   Apr 5 2005, 03:31 AM
ItzOnlySydney   tell him how you are feeling =) i am sure he has n...   Apr 5 2005, 03:39 AM
Weird addiction   if he pressures you for sex, dump him.   Apr 5 2005, 05:22 AM
_sarcastic_   don't have sex with him because you want to sa...   Apr 5 2005, 06:55 AM
vampireduster   if he dumps you for not having sex with him then s...   Apr 8 2005, 06:08 PM
xxaznxgurlxx   if he really do love you for who you are. then he ...   Apr 8 2005, 06:11 PM
x_y0urElectrikk   Thats kinda how it is with my bf now. I think I...   Apr 8 2005, 06:18 PM
Frankie   if he breaks up with you because you won't hav...   Apr 8 2005, 06:27 PM
illuminessence   You hafta say no right? Well, if he dumps you, tha...   Apr 8 2005, 11:11 PM
xlovenyoux   i know that you may like him alot, but you should ...   Apr 8 2005, 11:38 PM
aera   if hes going to dump you for not having sex, then ...   Apr 9 2005, 07:36 PM
cHuNsAbAbIe012   if he cant respect u n ur body especially wen u do...   Apr 9 2005, 07:55 PM
DrEaMgUy2K1   make up ur mind, think about it, whats more import...   Apr 9 2005, 08:00 PM
KissMe2408   I know you like the guy and all, but no guy is wor...   Apr 10 2005, 03:42 AM


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