nice guys, lose Options

[fameONE]

Despite my sarcasm and satirical humor on this blog, I'm a nice guy and its a well known fact to all those who come in contact with me. Very few have seen my temper and most are aware of my attempts at philanthropy. To put it simply; I care about others more than I care about myself and I selfishly devote myself to selflessness. I'm told all the time that I have every right to show some more pride in my achievements or that I should accept compliments with a bit more ease, but, this is just my nature. I've dated girls who've loved this about me and I've made them very happy. A few others have used this against me and manipulated me like the fool I am (when it coms to women). If you've ever been to a pro basketball game, the courtside suites are as luxurious as it gets. You don't even have to watch the game with leather furniture and a plasma screen tv linked to DirecTV with a constant (and free [sort of]) supply of food. Now that that's said, I invited an ex to the Spurs/Lakers game and I had courtside suites. We were there for 20 minutes and she decided that basketball, as well as my interests (jazz music, motorcycles, writing) bored her and she wanted me to show her a good time on our date. Jazz clubs were out of the question, motorcycle rides weren't an option and poetry night got put right out of my mind. I took her out to eat at the Cheesecake Factory and proceeded to take her home. Different girl, same MO. Guys like me, in my situation that is, stand idly by while the girls that we believe we should be with suffer through a shady relationship with the cheating a-hole that we secretly plot to take out. My question is; do girls like these assholes that degrade them, objectify them and live their lives behind a macho bravado just for their rep? From middle school to college, its been the same thing over and over again and the nice guy, no matter how good looking or ugly, strong or weak, finished last.

[*mzkandi*]

My question is; do girls like these assholes that degrade them, objectify them and live their lives behind a macho bravado just for their rep? From middle school to college, its been the same thing over and over again and the nice guy, no matter how good looking or ugly, strong or weak, finished last.

Of course girls dont want to be treated like sh*t. thats a rather silly question. i, myself, have never dated a guy (since i've been in college) that has treated me wrong to my knowledge. i have only been in two serious relationships. one ended because he was in the army and i couldnt deal with him being away all the time and the other was because he moved away. i was treated like a queen by both guys and i treat the guys i dated well too. but i see what you are saying about girls dating guys that treat them like crap. all my friends have or still date guys like that. and the thing about it is they know that the guys they are messing with are doing them wrong. sometimes i wonder if they love the drama or maybe its the sex they love too much...or maybe they think someday they will come around..i donno. and did you say cheesecake factory??!!?? I love that place.

p.s: nice guys are great but in real life sometimes they finish last...harsh reality *shrug*