Eating Disorders, How... Options

[ficklenesswhatev...]

I wanna get one. Real bad.

I need one. I'm fat. I just don't wanna do it wrong and let someone find out.

So if anyone has any tips, tell me.

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That's why I don't want anyone to find out..because it's not attractive. But neither is being fat.

[XoJennaoX]

okay first off.....*takes breath* telling someone that getting an eating disorder is a stupid idea or that they are retarded for thinking so, is really not helping anyone!!

It is more serious than some of you are making it out be. Hoping someone goes into the hospital for of an eating disorder just because you think they are a complete idiot is really immature! I'm sure you are just making the situation worse. If you really want to help keep ur mouth shut.

Yes eating disorders are unheathly, have many negative affects on your body and never work in the long run. I am against them all as well BUT

I DO understand why girls are attracted to them, especially in our society today. Why not? It is the quickest way to loose a lot of weight AND it actually is easier than dieting healthy, because once you go for a long time without food your appetite suppresses greatly.

Honestly I use to kinda want to have one too, because i'm a dancer and there is a certain pressure to be stick skinny. But I really feel they are a sign of weakness, and i wanted to be heathy and be able to actually dance and not lose any muscle...lol....so now i'm glad I can say i am very happy with myself and proud I didn't take the easy way out. So all i can say is give the subject a lot of research and you may see it is not exactly the best way to go. good luck.

[dancingkait]

Honestly I use to kinda want to have one too, because i'm a dancer and there is a certain pressure to be stick skinny. But I really feel they are a sign of weakness, and i wanted to be heathy and be able to actually dance and not lose any muscle...lol....so now i'm glad I can say i am very happy with myself and proud I didn't take the easy way out. So all i can say is give the subject a lot of research and you may see it is not exactly the best way to go.  good luck.

okay..im a dancer too. and i dont need to be anorexic to dance well!!

but keeping our mouths shut isnt going to help her. we're trying to steer her away from a disease. it's not a good idea and we're trying to help her get better before she does something she'll regret.

[XoJennaoX]

okay..im a dancer too. and i dont need to be anorexic to dance well!!

but keeping our mouths shut isnt going to help her. we're trying to steer her away from a disease. it's not a good idea and we're trying to help her get better before she does something she'll regret.

okay you missed what i was saying completely! because to be a PROFESSIONAL ballet dancer you MUST be skinny aside from being good....it is required and thats just how it is...i didn't say it makes you dance better! ...cuz that would be just stupid of me to say.

and also steering a person away from a disease by saying they are stupid and retarded and deserve to be in a hospital is NOT the way to say it, correct? Doesn't anybody remember Bambi? - if you don't have something nice to say don't say anything at all! I am also trying to steer her away from this, but obviously you just don't get it.

So like in that last post, go ahead and call her a fat whore or an anorexic bitch because your words of wisdom will obviously make her change her mind.