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[megan_x3]

alright .this might be long. but i want to put it to a summary.
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alright. so dis guy before he told me that he likes me. and also my other friend. but i dont want to make a move and say like ' arent u gonna ask me out... ? ' so i just waited for about like 2 months. between those 2 months. we always hang out wit each other and talk and being stupid. =) but den later on i started realizing that he actually talks to my friend more than talkin to me. i may sound like im selfish of my best friend or jealous of dem 'both'. but yeah. okay. so i told my best friend who my crush always talk to. and she was like , .... ( silence ) ... i told my other friend and she had noticed it too. i had been like depressed over dat situation and over that problem. and when he tried to talk to me, i walked away and ignored him. so he went over to my best friend that he always talk to and ask her why is everyone mad at him and espicaly me. my friend asked him if he still liked me.. and it took like 20 seconds for him to answer. so i was like.. ok if it took like 20 seconds to answer . it might be that because he doesnt want to dissappoint me/ my friend. i actually thinked that before he actually told me that he liked me, we're like tight friends. but i guessed that i was wrong. =/ **sigh**

should i say that i was wrong and im sorry?
should i explain it to him ?
should i try to go out with him?

i may be too young for relationships right now.. but im ready !
is there any chance that some guys may be shy around their crush and doesn't really talk to them??

[*Solipsist*]

should i say that i was wrong and im sorry? No, not really. Your reaction was pretty normal since he IS sort of playing you both and you got the shit end of it.

should i explain it to him ? Yes, definitely.

should i try to go out with him? It's really up to you. Do you want to go out with someone knowing they like someone else? Maybe like them better?

is there any chance that some guys may be shy around their crush and doesn't really talk to them?? Yes. Some dudes are like that. Although, it seemse that this particular dude doesn't have that problem. It's just that, maybe he likes talking to your friend better.

- Solipsist