conflicting situation..., what do i do? |
 Apr 5 2005, 10:44 PM
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 reluctantly gazing  Group: Member Posts: 472 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,555  |
Alright, I realized that there were posts similar to this before but still, they weren't exactly related.
I really like one of my best guy friends, and practically all of my friends tell me that I should ask him out. I'm friends with all of his other close friends as well, and they keep insisting that he also likes me back. Although I'm not scared to ask him out and we get along very well, I am actually not too sure whether I want to ask him out or not. I believe that he likes me back, maybe not as much as I like him but still. The reason I am not very sure about asking him or not is because I don't want to ruin our friendship. Although going out would just bring us closer, I'm afraid that if we broke up we would not be as good friends anymore, or perhaps we might not talk anymore. I value his friendship a lot. What do you guys think I should do? |
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Apr 6 2005, 11:00 AM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
You always hafta make risks. This will be a risk. Say that it is possible that you guys end up going out, but eventually, you break up and the friendship is never the same, or possibly, non-existant? Would it be worth it to you??? I went out with my best friend and we broke up. We're still friends, but we fight a lot and we haven't been as close ever since. The friendship is completely unstable. Are you willing to risk it?
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x LUV x ALWAYS x conflicting situation... Apr 5 2005, 10:44 PM
FoOd Well I think you should hint that you like him, an... Apr 5 2005, 10:51 PM yukichan hmm..i guess u have to risk it..if u want to date ... Apr 6 2005, 12:15 AM K!$$ ^ Agree.
If you want to date him, you have to ris... Apr 6 2005, 01:18 AM sadolakced acid you'll kill your friendship.
it's what i... Apr 6 2005, 01:25 AM coughdroppaddict i would wait to see if he asked me out. i personal... Apr 7 2005, 02:55 PM
Frankie don't do it unless you KNOW that something big... Apr 7 2005, 04:45 PM |
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