i feel like i'm being unfair, in judging him like this... |
 Apr 5 2005, 08:32 PM
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so there's this guy i like in my PE class. he's in 9th grade, i'm in 8th. there are all these differences like he's popular, hott (lol there's a point with this) and really funny and everything... i could just go on. and i've gotten some hints for a while that he might like me, but i feel like it would be impossible (because of who i am... like he could have ANY of the pretty 9th grade girls) that he could like me, but from everything that's happened i dont really know what to think.
i've seen him to be mean to certain people. like really mean. and he swears a lot (not a LOT... but more then i'm used to with most ppl) and all this stuff, so i'm not really sure if he'd be my type. like the bad boy type. because it kind of scares/intimidates me sometimes. i talked about this with one of my friends, and she said that i was being stereotypical, that just because he was popular and w.e. doesnt mean that he couldn't like me... but dont people's actions speak for themselves? i mean he has called a girl in class various 'names', but then again he's so nice and sweet and funny and charming other times. but i dont know him at all... so he couldn't possibly like me for my personality but basically, my question is Do you think i should be so judgemental? i feel like i'm assuming everything... sorry this was really confusing and long... i'll try to rephrase if you dont get it 
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Apr 5 2005, 09:42 PM
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 bad apple Group: Member Posts: 168 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,009 |
QUOTE(angel_revelation @ Apr 5 2005, 8:32 PM) but i dont know him at all... so he couldn't possibly like me for my personality  that's it hun, you don't know him. just because he has this stereotypical behavior doesn't mean he necessarily lives up to that. don't assume anything about anyone. assume = making an ass out of you and me. it's not fair if you automatically assume he's something when you don't know quite yet. go and talk to him, really. QUOTE Also, if you don't know him very well and he doesn't know you, then that tends to lead me to believe that this is based on looks, because if you don't know very much about each other, then how can you say you like him? you can like someone without knowing their personality. that's what crush is all about and when you finally get to know them, then you find other reasons to like them. you don't like someone without having some sort of physical attraction. |
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angel_revelation i feel like i'm being unfair Apr 5 2005, 08:32 PM
Nicolatofu ok, first of all, I want you to set aside the fact... Apr 5 2005, 09:13 PM
x____duckii QUOTE(XKali_chik_4_lifeX @ Apr 5 2005, 10:13 ... Apr 6 2005, 04:26 PM Nicolatofu QUOTEyou can like someone without knowing their pe... Apr 5 2005, 09:47 PM angel_revelation thanks, i'll think about that stuff ^^ but it... Apr 5 2005, 09:55 PM illuminessence Don't judge him UNTIL you get to know him. Apr 6 2005, 10:51 AM UrF4vL!pGl0Zz1212 QUOTE(illuminessence @ Apr 6 2005, 9:51 AM)Do... Apr 6 2005, 03:03 PM K!$$ Agree with XKali_chik_4_lifeX.
I understand why y... Apr 6 2005, 10:45 PM LittleLulu ok you SAID that you dont know him well.
that mea... Apr 7 2005, 12:53 AM iNyCxShoRT Well like they say looks can be decieveing so try ... Apr 29 2005, 11:05 AM xMyStIcShAd0wSx you first have to know him really well before you ... Apr 29 2005, 12:24 PM |
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