Gah! Perverts!!, i need help. =[ |
 Apr 4 2005, 02:54 PM
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yerp!  Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454  |
Okay, I'm sure most of you know that I have a four year old daughter, Geena.
Well, she has a best friend named Lindsay, and I don't mind her, but it's Lindsay's parents. Every time I set up a playdate for my daughter and Lindsay, I have to see her dad (Lindsay's mom works most of the day). He's okay sometimes, but lately he's gotten really perverted and I feel REALLY uncomfortable around him. He makes uncomfortable remarks about my body, tries to touch me, etc. One time I bent down to get Geena's toy and he tugged at my underwear and complimented me on it!  I've tried to talk to him many times about it, but he just ignores me. And I don't want to tell Lindsay's mom because she already dislikes me. (I overheard her call me a 'skank' because I had Geena at such a young age.) But I don't want to make Geena stop hanging out with Lindsay, since she has such a great time with her, just because of me. I'm not really sure what to do. 
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Apr 4 2005, 08:39 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
.. im not sure what to say. i wish i could help >T
QUOTE 1. be very nice and kind to her mom. 2. change her thoughts about you 3. if she start trusting you, tell her that her husband is doing something wrong ( a form of cheating ) 4. she will no longer be his husband 5. your daughter will still contact her daughter 6. the end ! you just got rid of the little girl's daddy =] ^ that could be great advice except if i were you, i wouldnt try to make the wife & husband to divorce. think of the impact on Lindsay? ive seen too many children with family problems [divorces, parent died, etc] & when they grew up [like in fourth grade] they start stealing things from other kids, not doing their homework, bad temper, attitude problems, etc. all sorts of things. its kinda scary. So if i were you, i wouldnt try to make them divorce cause the outcome for Lindsay wouldn`t be too great >T good luck ! 
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i heart john Gah! Perverts!! Apr 4 2005, 02:54 PM
xxtaintedlips wow thats a tuff one...
well let your daughter han... Apr 4 2005, 03:08 PM ermfermoo But you have to think, if you don't do anythin... Apr 4 2005, 03:14 PM Nerve_Agents! Thats terible! You should realy try talking 2 ... Apr 4 2005, 03:19 PM
i heart john QUOTE(Nerve_Agents! @ Apr 4 2005, 3:19 PM... Apr 4 2005, 04:00 PM Nicolatofu Wow, that's a tough situation. I can't bel... Apr 4 2005, 03:24 PM xxtaintedlips oh also...umm..u might not want your girl to go th... Apr 4 2005, 03:27 PM xMayleex That man should know better as he is a married or ... Apr 4 2005, 03:27 PM BrokenDream QUOTE(xMayleex @ Apr 4 2005, 3:27 PM)That man... Jun 5 2005, 10:29 PM i_am_a_chameleon oh gosh. i really wish i could help but i've n... Apr 4 2005, 03:40 PM Funky Buddha All I can say is be on the look out, try not to be... Apr 4 2005, 04:06 PM Spiritual Winged Aura 1. be very nice and kind to her mom.
2. change her... Apr 4 2005, 04:12 PM Funky Buddha QUOTE(aznxboredxperson @ Apr 4 2005, 4:12 PM)... Apr 4 2005, 04:13 PM i heart john QUOTE(aznxboredxperson @ Apr 4 2005, 4:12 PM)... Apr 4 2005, 05:44 PM Spiritual Winged Aura QUOTE([f]eleeza @ Apr 4 2005, 2:44 P... Apr 4 2005, 08:28 PM wind&fire QUOTE(aznxboredxperson @ Apr 5 2005, 7:12 AM)... Apr 4 2005, 09:34 PM xXMomoBubbleTeaXx WHOA!!!...I can't belive he does t... Apr 4 2005, 04:24 PM ChEeR A HOliC Xo Your daughter`s only 4 year`s old. If he k... Apr 4 2005, 05:53 PM wounded seriously, I don't know much. But what I know ... Apr 4 2005, 06:00 PM IamRad gosh.. that sucks
if i was in ur position i dont ... Apr 4 2005, 06:05 PM ..:loveee.NuTTii Option #1:Isn't that sexual harrasment? Doesn... Apr 4 2005, 06:13 PM cocoalightning27 Get the two little girls to retaliate....or you co... Apr 4 2005, 06:14 PM O x LiseE x O Well, who cares what she thinks, tell the wife. I ... Apr 4 2005, 06:19 PM angel_revelation hmm... maybe you could talk to the girl's mom.... Apr 4 2005, 06:21 PM lilphoenix are you willing to afford what impact this might h... Apr 4 2005, 06:35 PM strwbrrykiwi23 learn karate... Apr 4 2005, 06:41 PM xBEBE Do you have their playdates at their house? Becaus... Apr 4 2005, 06:46 PM aznxdreamer kill him. i mean..did i just let that slip??
call... Apr 4 2005, 08:20 PM FoOd QUOTE(aznxdreamer @ Apr 4 2005, 6:20 PM)kill ... Apr 5 2005, 12:43 AM one_and_only QUOTE(aznxdreamer @ Apr 4 2005, 6:20 PM)kill ... Jul 5 2005, 07:27 PM ficklenesswhatever Sue for sexual harassment, tell him no when he... Apr 4 2005, 08:25 PM electric shock QUOTE(ficklenesswhatever @ Apr 4 2005, 9:25 P... Apr 4 2005, 09:17 PM yellowgurl maybe you should get all the needed numbers to pre... Apr 4 2005, 09:06 PM xXgWenZilLaXx rape : Abusive or improper treatment
lets jump h... Apr 4 2005, 09:13 PM _sarcastic_ talk to him about it, be firm. if he still ignore... Apr 4 2005, 09:14 PM Shattered_Hope Tell him you'll press charges if he keeps it u... Apr 4 2005, 09:28 PM layDeeW hmm...well reporting him would end yur daughter nd... Apr 4 2005, 09:38 PM dani41790 well i guess for now, u just gotta try to ignore i... Apr 4 2005, 09:39 PM angelshortipnai if u REALLY don't wanna talk to his wife, call... Apr 4 2005, 09:44 PM salcha ^ too drastic. i mean really, what would the polic... Apr 5 2005, 12:06 AM minus_perfection just dont stand really close to him or something,o... Apr 5 2005, 12:14 AM YoGrandpaIsFine Wear a thong and bend over the next time you see h... Apr 5 2005, 12:19 AM i heart john QUOTE(im_s0_sp0ngey @ Apr 5 2005, 12:19 AM)We... Apr 5 2005, 02:06 PM sweetxsimplicity Even though Lindsay's mom may hate you, I thin... Apr 5 2005, 12:28 AM gossipgirl o....he's so terrible Apr 5 2005, 06:33 AM jooleeah Tell the guy that if he harasses you again, you... Apr 5 2005, 02:23 PM bravodancer04 Oooh..that really is a bad situation..IDK I might ... Apr 5 2005, 03:15 PM liloandstitchx3 i was was thinking like bring a guy with you next ... Apr 6 2005, 08:46 PM xlaydee_v you should tell the guy to back off. seriously.. i... Jun 5 2005, 02:32 PM ichigofan woah thats dispicable i hate people like that, wel... Jun 5 2005, 06:23 PM [x]Mari[x] Next time, bring a guy friend with you. And never ... Jun 5 2005, 06:37 PM thatoneasiangirlx Let your daughter still play with Lindsay. Don... Jun 5 2005, 06:38 PM literemix24 ..I think you should talk about it to Lindsay... Jun 5 2005, 07:18 PM dragyn Wow. That is incredibly inconvenient.
Originally... Jun 5 2005, 07:22 PM iNyCxShoRT Oh I think you should tell Lindsay's mother, y... Jun 5 2005, 10:26 PM hott_n_luvin_it you aren't any of those things unless YOU trul... Jun 5 2005, 10:32 PM BrokenDream I'd say, if he doesn't stop, call the poli... Jun 6 2005, 12:57 PM yycleo Since the mother doesnt like u at the 1st place.
t... Jun 6 2005, 01:20 PM Mileep I think that man is a pervert. He got balls you k... Jun 6 2005, 01:39 PM xxaznxgurlxx Hmm.. i think you should really talk to Lindsay... Jun 6 2005, 04:45 PM missknowitall1414 i agree with what nicole said. she is right. and i... Jun 6 2005, 06:37 PM __xxfrappachino<3 wow..ur problems make mine seem like nothing in co... Jun 6 2005, 06:50 PM toodlepops. Charge him with sexual assault. If that's poss... Jul 5 2005, 04:54 AM takeapolaroid__x omg i have practically the same problem but hes no... Jul 5 2005, 06:11 AM Shortiiex who cares if she doesn't like you...get them b... Jul 5 2005, 07:46 PM 3ssx well. continue to let your daughter play with lind... Jul 5 2005, 07:57 PM tommyhilfiger_gurl first, try to resolve your communication w/ her mo... Jul 5 2005, 08:07 PM starlette you are not a skank, and make you fiancee stay wit... Jul 5 2005, 08:11 PM Paradox of Life ^ I agree.
Try not to be around him that often be... Jul 5 2005, 08:22 PM Kristinaa Harassment. Sue him. Take some type of legal actio... Jul 5 2005, 08:28 PM islandkiss I don't know what to say. I completely loathe ... Jul 5 2005, 08:50 PM mouse_3k Punch him in the face. Kick his little perverted b... Jul 5 2005, 10:55 PM reflection QUOTEyou are not a skank, and make you fiancee sta... Jul 6 2005, 09:23 AM Xprezsion Wow that must be very uncomfortable. Maybe try to... Jul 6 2005, 11:20 AM Fallen Fairy Say NO!
And arrange the play dates by phone, ... Jul 6 2005, 02:28 PM enyceXaddiction just tell lindseys mom. make her jealous shes such... Jul 7 2005, 06:36 PM sheddingtears hmm maybe always bring like a buff guy friend or s... Jul 24 2005, 08:14 AM |
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