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My partner is STUBBORN
rememberme
post Mar 27 2005, 02:16 PM
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My boy-friend is SOOOOo stubborn.

Like, when something comes up, I talk and talk and talk, and ask him whats wrong and what he's thinking. At times, he just gets SOOoo silent... I know he's mad or either annoyed, but he's stubborn to say ne thing... We agreed to have an open relationship, but I don't see it. I gotta bug him about it constantly for about an hour till he spill the beans.

What can I say for him to understand my point of view, that we need to communicate and be open in our relationship to help make it work....

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illuminessence
post Apr 4 2005, 02:24 PM
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Maybe he does understand you. Maybe it's just he's afraid of disappointing you or upsetting you more? Maybe he isn't ready for a real commitment? Maybe he's uncomfortable with you??? I say remain persistant. If he won't tell you, then don't force him. He'll be open once he knows he can talk to you.
 

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rememberme   My partner is STUBBORN   Mar 27 2005, 02:16 PM
xXirockhardXx   I dont get your question.   Mar 27 2005, 02:37 PM
[Mediocre]Artist   She wants to know how to make her boyfriend start ...   Mar 27 2005, 02:43 PM
xXirockhardXx   ^^ Oh ok. I think you should try to talk to him ab...   Mar 27 2005, 02:57 PM
rememberme   QUOTE(xXirockhardXx @ Mar 27 2005, 2:57 PM)^^...   Mar 27 2005, 03:02 PM
[Mediocre]Artist   QUOTE(rememberme @ Mar 27 2005, 2:02 PM)thats...   Mar 27 2005, 03:09 PM
ItzOnlySydney   all u can do. make it known if he ever whats to tl...   Mar 27 2005, 03:11 PM
airam   maybe he doesn't love you anymore.   Mar 27 2005, 03:28 PM
rememberme   QUOTE(airam @ Mar 27 2005, 3:28 PM)maybe he d...   Mar 27 2005, 03:34 PM
mouse_3k   well if you continue to be like *whats wrong? you ...   Mar 27 2005, 04:04 PM
rememberme   QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Mar 27 2005, 4:04 PM)well if...   Mar 27 2005, 04:46 PM
shanny   you're probably doing this already, but if you...   Mar 27 2005, 05:03 PM
xSWEETxCANDiix   QUOTE(shanny @ Mar 27 2005, 2:03 PM)you'r...   Mar 27 2005, 09:32 PM
mouse_3k   QUOTEI was wondering, how can I approach him, and ...   Mar 27 2005, 05:27 PM
_sarcastic_   i'm just like your bf, i have troubles opening...   Mar 27 2005, 08:13 PM
Shattered_Hope   Just tell him that you'll always be there for ...   Mar 28 2005, 12:13 AM
sexii_baobeii   u know what? i think u oughtta quit annoying him w...   Mar 28 2005, 09:04 AM
rememberme   f**k. I just got dumped. he stated that he felt ...   Mar 28 2005, 04:21 PM
spacewicket   maybe he is still new at relationships or is bein ...   Mar 29 2005, 05:24 PM
spacewicket   hope everything works out   Mar 29 2005, 06:07 PM
DrEaMgUy2K1   blowjob   Mar 29 2005, 06:25 PM
airam   ^har dee har har   Mar 29 2005, 06:35 PM
xd0rkette   aww; he's stupid. don't worry; there'l...   Mar 29 2005, 06:51 PM
lilshelil   When u talk to him try not to look at him talk to ...   Mar 29 2005, 07:18 PM
Chii   well, i guess you nagged him too much and he broke...   Mar 29 2005, 10:28 PM
anger_is_my_friend   was he like this before? hmm don't force him o...   Mar 30 2005, 07:36 PM
ficklenesswhatever   Don't talk so much. Plain and simple. If he ...   Mar 30 2005, 08:35 PM
sexii_baobeii   wow. it seems like i predicted the future : ) aww ...   Apr 4 2005, 03:00 AM
illuminessence   Maybe he does understand you. Maybe it's just ...   Apr 4 2005, 02:24 PM
strwbrrykiwi23   maybe you were being too nosy.   Apr 4 2005, 06:49 PM


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