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boy problems....
shshortie89
post Apr 2 2005, 02:53 PM
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okay, so i'm new here. but i love the adivce people are giving....

so this guy and i have dated for 3 years. and we've been off and on a lOt. right now we're not together but we still hang out ocassionally. we hung out this weekend and he's trying to be with me again. i feel like i don't love him anymore. i've had a lot of emotional (and eating) issues having to deal with him, and i'm finnally getting out of those habits now that we're not fighting/together so much. i don't want to cut off all contact with him, but i'm starting to feel like that's the only way i can get it through to him taht i really don't want "us" to be anymore....what do you guys think? <3

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topsyturvy
post Apr 2 2005, 10:12 PM
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QUOTE(urbanychic @ Apr 3 2005, 4:28 AM)
After that, you should probably minimize your time with him until he's accepted the fact that you guys won't be an item again.
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^ Agreed. And you also have to get yourself over him. STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM.

QUOTE(swe3ttemptasian @ Apr 3 2005, 4:31 AM)
Tell him you want to be friends, and nothing more because you don't want to go through anymore pain.
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^ Also agreed.

QUOTE(illuminessence @ Apr 3 2005, 4:35 AM)
Otherwise, the cycle will just continue on and it won't get anywhere.
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^ Agreed again.
 

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shshortie89   boy problems....   Apr 2 2005, 02:53 PM
tweeak   ...moved to entertainment relationships im glad ...   Apr 2 2005, 02:58 PM
nevernothere   Perhaps you and him should have a heart to heart: ...   Apr 2 2005, 03:00 PM
salcha   wow. okay, so first I think that you should just t...   Apr 2 2005, 03:21 PM
urbanychic   I think, just like everyone had said, to talk to h...   Apr 2 2005, 03:28 PM
swe3ttemptasian   Tell him you want to be friends, and nothing more ...   Apr 2 2005, 03:31 PM
illuminessence   Sometimes you hafta make sacrifices for your own b...   Apr 2 2005, 03:35 PM
angel_revelation   QUOTE(illuminessence @ Apr 2 2005, 12:35 PM)Y...   Apr 2 2005, 08:15 PM
K!$$   QUOTE(urbanychic @ Apr 3 2005, 4:28 AM)After ...   Apr 2 2005, 10:12 PM
shshortie89   thanks guys <333   Apr 2 2005, 10:49 PM
Nicole0402   Well. Tell him. You don't want to lose what yo...   Apr 3 2005, 11:43 AM
stephinika   ^^ i agree, you should talk to him. thats the only...   Apr 3 2005, 05:03 PM
Days Nearly Over   Talk to him and if you can't stop ... go watch...   Apr 3 2005, 09:09 PM
sheepy   talk to him. i mean 3 years.. thts a lot. let him ...   Apr 3 2005, 10:00 PM
cutey2kc   i say, tell him how you feel. get this all off yo...   Apr 3 2005, 10:12 PM
sexii_baobeii   hmm. i think...i think that u should just say ...   Apr 4 2005, 02:31 AM
mistaken_identity   I think you should try talking to him about how yo...   Apr 4 2005, 02:38 AM
daintyme   i agree. maybe you guys should be friends. really ...   Apr 4 2005, 01:48 PM
shshortie89   i talked to him and i felt pretty bad because he s...   Apr 4 2005, 05:29 PM


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