boy problems.... |
boy problems.... |
Apr 2 2005, 02:53 PM
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okay, so i'm new here. but i love the adivce people are giving....
so this guy and i have dated for 3 years. and we've been off and on a lOt. right now we're not together but we still hang out ocassionally. we hung out this weekend and he's trying to be with me again. i feel like i don't love him anymore. i've had a lot of emotional (and eating) issues having to deal with him, and i'm finnally getting out of those habits now that we're not fighting/together so much. i don't want to cut off all contact with him, but i'm starting to feel like that's the only way i can get it through to him taht i really don't want "us" to be anymore....what do you guys think? <3 Sarah |
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Apr 2 2005, 03:35 PM
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![]() blah ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
Sometimes you hafta make sacrifices for your own benefit. He should understand that you won't always be waiting for him to come back. If he doesn't and he does not want to continue your friendship with him cuz it's too painful, then there's nothing else you can do. You both need to move on and grow without the other. Otherwise, the cycle will just continue on and it won't get anywhere.
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Apr 2 2005, 08:15 PM
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You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
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shshortie89 boy problems.... Apr 2 2005, 02:53 PM
tweeak ...moved to entertainment relationships
im glad ... Apr 2 2005, 02:58 PM
nevernothere Perhaps you and him should have a heart to heart: ... Apr 2 2005, 03:00 PM
salcha wow.
okay, so first I think that you should just t... Apr 2 2005, 03:21 PM
urbanychic I think, just like everyone had said, to talk to h... Apr 2 2005, 03:28 PM
swe3ttemptasian Tell him you want to be friends, and nothing more ... Apr 2 2005, 03:31 PM
K!$$ QUOTE(urbanychic @ Apr 3 2005, 4:28 AM)After ... Apr 2 2005, 10:12 PM
shshortie89 thanks guys <333 Apr 2 2005, 10:49 PM
Nicole0402 Well. Tell him. You don't want to lose what yo... Apr 3 2005, 11:43 AM
stephinika ^^
i agree, you should talk to him. thats the only... Apr 3 2005, 05:03 PM
Days Nearly Over Talk to him and if you can't stop ... go watch... Apr 3 2005, 09:09 PM
sheepy talk to him. i mean 3 years.. thts a lot. let him ... Apr 3 2005, 10:00 PM
cutey2kc i say, tell him how you feel. get this all off yo... Apr 3 2005, 10:12 PM
sexii_baobeii hmm. i think...i think that u should just say ... Apr 4 2005, 02:31 AM
mistaken_identity I think you should try talking to him about how yo... Apr 4 2005, 02:38 AM
daintyme i agree. maybe you guys should be friends. really ... Apr 4 2005, 01:48 PM
shshortie89 i talked to him and i felt pretty bad because he s... Apr 4 2005, 05:29 PM![]() ![]() |