boy problems.... |
 Apr 2 2005, 02:53 PM
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okay, so i'm new here. but i love the adivce people are giving....
so this guy and i have dated for 3 years. and we've been off and on a lOt. right now we're not together but we still hang out ocassionally. we hung out this weekend and he's trying to be with me again. i feel like i don't love him anymore. i've had a lot of emotional (and eating) issues having to deal with him, and i'm finnally getting out of those habits now that we're not fighting/together so much. i don't want to cut off all contact with him, but i'm starting to feel like that's the only way i can get it through to him taht i really don't want "us" to be anymore....what do you guys think? <3 Sarah |
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Apr 2 2005, 03:28 PM
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 bad apple Group: Member Posts: 168 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,009 |
I think, just like everyone had said, to talk to him first. Avoiding him is only going to bring on anger towards you, and I'm sure that isn't what you want. Just tell him exactly how you feel, be honest. If you feel comfortable, write him a letter instead of being face to face. Either way, tell him how you are feeling. After that, you should probably minimize your time with him until he's accepted the fact that you guys won't be an item again. You could spend some time with your friends or find new interests OR do something good for others or yourself (working in the soup kitchen or working out). By doing something different, it helps get him off of your mind and opens your mind to other things. Good luck!
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okay, so first I think that you should just t... Apr 2 2005, 03:21 PM swe3ttemptasian Tell him you want to be friends, and nothing more ... Apr 2 2005, 03:31 PM illuminessence Sometimes you hafta make sacrifices for your own b... Apr 2 2005, 03:35 PM
angel_revelation QUOTE(illuminessence @ Apr 2 2005, 12:35 PM)Y... Apr 2 2005, 08:15 PM K!$$ QUOTE(urbanychic @ Apr 3 2005, 4:28 AM)After ... Apr 2 2005, 10:12 PM shshortie89 thanks guys <333 Apr 2 2005, 10:49 PM Nicole0402 Well. Tell him. You don't want to lose what yo... Apr 3 2005, 11:43 AM stephinika ^^
i agree, you should talk to him. thats the only... Apr 3 2005, 05:03 PM Days Nearly Over Talk to him and if you can't stop ... go watch... Apr 3 2005, 09:09 PM sheepy talk to him. i mean 3 years.. thts a lot. let him ... Apr 3 2005, 10:00 PM cutey2kc i say, tell him how you feel. get this all off yo... Apr 3 2005, 10:12 PM sexii_baobeii hmm. i think...i think that u should just say ... Apr 4 2005, 02:31 AM mistaken_identity I think you should try talking to him about how yo... Apr 4 2005, 02:38 AM daintyme i agree. maybe you guys should be friends. really ... Apr 4 2005, 01:48 PM shshortie89 i talked to him and i felt pretty bad because he s... Apr 4 2005, 05:29 PM |
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