....wtf?!, gimme your opinions on this, good&bad |
....wtf?!, gimme your opinions on this, good&bad |
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Newbie ![]() Group: Member Posts: 6 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,619 ![]() |
about a month ago my g/f broke up with me. we are both seniors in high school. i'm 19, she's 18. i, being the devoute b/f, was heartbroken. got it? she broke up with me b/c she felt she didn't have time for me. do you buy that? i did at the time, don't know 'bout now. a few days ago, i find out there is a guy (a sophomore) claiming to be her b/f, or saying that they were going on a date. (i don't know the exact story...yet). i was like WTF?! (hence the name of topic) so let me get this straight, you don't have time for me, but you have time for a guy who is at least 2 FREAKING YEARS YOUNGER THAN YOU?! apparently i am the only one who doesn't "know" this. all of her friends (who appear to be my friends, not so sure now) seem to know this, and none of them will barely talk to me anymore. so obviously something is up. COME ON! THE KID CAN'T EVEN DRIVE YET! DO YOU KNOW THAT'S ILLEGAL?! you're 18 and he's not even close to 16! not to mention he's a freaking pot head. he's probably going to try to spike her drink, get her drunk and screw her. in which case, since she can't drink aclohol (literally makes her puke...A LOT), her dad kills him, game over.
so here are my options. 1) i can bring this subject up in one of our limited conversations. hurt a lot of feelings, piss off a lot of people, and ruin some friendships, but get the truth. 2) ignore it and let her get into another mess. (becuase it's not my place) 3) or plan K.T.F.S.O.O.T.K. (kick the f****** s*** out of that kid) so please tell me what you think of this. i don't care what it is you say. if you call me obsessive about this girl, so be it. her friend already called me that. if you think i'm right, cool. and which option(s) should i take? because with the mood i'm in right now, i'm thinking options 1 and 3. i say 1 becuase i can make sure we never see each other again, so that wouldn't be a problem, and 3 because i feel like it. |
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hey, thanks for all the input on things. i had already decided on what i was going to do, i really just wanted to see what other people thought of it. i realize that we aren't together anymore, and i never acted like i had any control/claim over her, and i would most def. never hit her....she'd do a lot more than just hit back (she's got a black belt in tae kwon do...do the math) i just don't want to see her get into a mess with this kid.
and for all you people who posted on here, thnx. by the way, i'm going to go with option 2. it has been made painfully clear that we are just friends now, and if she wants to tell me what's going on, then she will. but other than that, it's her life to do with as she pleases. def. not going with 1 because chances are i'd totally lose it and go crazy. not going with 3 because it would be pointless, and i don't know what their relationship is, and it's not my place to pry....or to beat, and she can def. take care of herself if she needs to. |
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