Boyfriends....Parents...., ... |
 Mar 31 2005, 08:43 PM
Post
#1
|
|
|
**I'm O sO fLy**  Group: Member Posts: 304 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,281  |
Well I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend... But i've been goin' out with ppl since 4th grade.... And i guess my parents don't want me to have a boyfriend is b/c they think i will have a baby and end up doin' bad things... this is not true... that's not me. i know what's right from wrong and i know when goin' to far is and i need to stop. I currently have a boyfriend and he treats me great but my dad now doens't allow any boys callin' my house anymore defitnally him b/c my dad heard him say " I love you " and i got caught... I am still with this guy and i just dunno what to tell my parents it's just sad and confusing for me to keep hiding these things from him... I need a boy their to comfort me and be loved and i love him back alot but i ono how to tell my parents...
how can i get this through to my parents? so they will allow me to have boyfriends? 
|
|
|
|
 |
Replies
|
Apr 1 2005, 05:59 PM
Post
#2
|
|
|
Misz.Jesika Group: Member Posts: 48 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,317 |
haha i totally had this problem too. ASiAN parents dont let you do anything. i know, it sucks.
well, im just turned thirteen on january 11 (yeah i know, im young  ) and i had my first boyfriend on the 26th of january. i go to a PRiVATE school which means everyone knows everyone. (300 people TOTAL in the whole entire school) so of course word gets around fast and my parents found out. i just kept denying it, even tho id already gotten caught. i guess the time we saw each other at school wasnt enough 'cas we'd be on the phone together from 9:30 PM and until 5:30 AM everyday. LiTERALLY. thats how i got caught, but i kept denying it and i still havent told them i was actually with him. (we broke up)so basically.. my advise is just hide it, 'cas i know what your parents are probably like and if theyre anything like my parents, youll be grounded for months. but its taking a risk 'cas if you get caught, like i did, youll still be in alot of trouble. im banned from going on AiM, got my cell taken away until 'further notice', guys arent allowed to call, and i can only go to the mall with my GiRL friends. so yeahh.. its really your choice if youd be willing to get in trouble for your guy. good luck 
|
|
|
|
Posts in this topic
AznVi3tGrl Boyfriends....Parents.... Mar 31 2005, 08:43 PM
tmauze i've never had that problem. the best advice i... Mar 31 2005, 08:47 PM electric shock I had that problem. Acutally, it was just a guy FR... Mar 31 2005, 09:15 PM
AznVi3tGrl QUOTE(Spiritedfreak @ Mar 31 2005, 9:15 PM)I ... Mar 31 2005, 09:35 PM helllla jankyyyy Most parents will not change their mind about this... Mar 31 2005, 09:24 PM yellowgurl QUOTE(x uHoH iTs Lo x @ Mar 31 2005, 6:24 PM)... Apr 4 2005, 09:14 PM mzkandi talk to them and tell them to please loosen up. bu... Mar 31 2005, 09:25 PM ahhishkaren Eh, asian parents. 90% of them will tell you not t... Mar 31 2005, 09:36 PM aera QUOTE(ahhishkaren @ Mar 31 2005, 10:36 PM)Eh,... Mar 31 2005, 11:13 PM No1_2_NoBody13 OK...so my dad dont want me having one either...he... Mar 31 2005, 09:40 PM No1_2_NoBody13 OK...so my dad dont want me having one either...he... Mar 31 2005, 09:41 PM lilshelil OMG! ASIAN HERE! SAME THING! my parent... Mar 31 2005, 09:50 PM somekhmergirl i agree with lilshelil it was in the beginning of ... Mar 31 2005, 09:56 PM angel_revelation this should be in relationships...
try to show yo... Apr 1 2005, 12:11 AM YoGrandpaIsFine Same here. I never tell my parents. I don't kn... Apr 1 2005, 12:24 AM AznVi3tGrl QUOTE(im_s0_sp0ngey @ Apr 1 2005, 12:24 AM)Sa... Apr 1 2005, 07:11 AM HoodieObsessed I definitly don't have that problem.
my paren... Apr 1 2005, 03:21 PM n3rdcuki [SIZE=1][FONT=Arial][COLOR=blue]i have the same ex... Apr 1 2005, 05:53 PM ..:loveee.NuTTii aha-me asain-ish (I'm Guyanese Indian) and my ... Apr 1 2005, 08:39 PM ..:loveee.NuTTii oh shit...i double posted...sorry Apr 1 2005, 08:39 PM ChEeR A HOliC Xo Tell them that you love him. And that they cant ch... Apr 1 2005, 08:47 PM salcha well, you tell them that you're old enough to ... Apr 2 2005, 02:30 AM FracturedSilence Wow. The only dating-related rule my parents have ... Apr 2 2005, 03:18 AM AznVi3tGrl yea but my parents say that if i do something bad ... Apr 2 2005, 11:25 PM MissSwim im asain too... and my parents are pretty strict.... Apr 2 2005, 11:39 PM Laotian_Doll why do azn parents act this way??!!?!?... Apr 4 2005, 06:27 PM O x LiseE x O Honestly, I haven't had a REAL relationship wi... Apr 4 2005, 06:31 PM xBEBE asian parents right? yeah, i can never do anything... Apr 4 2005, 07:28 PM |
2 User(s) are reading this topic (2 Guests and 0 Anonymous Users)
0 Members: