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AznVi3tGrl
post Mar 31 2005, 08:43 PM
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Well I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend... But i've been goin' out with ppl since 4th grade.... And i guess my parents don't want me to have a boyfriend is b/c they think i will have a baby and end up doin' bad things... this is not true... that's not me. i know what's right from wrong and i know when goin' to far is and i need to stop. I currently have a boyfriend and he treats me great but my dad now doens't allow any boys callin' my house anymore defitnally him b/c my dad heard him say " I love you " and i got caught... I am still with this guy and i just dunno what to tell my parents it's just sad and confusing for me to keep hiding these things from him... I need a boy their to comfort me and be loved and i love him back alot but i ono how to tell my parents...

how can i get this through to my parents? so they will allow me to have boyfriends? cry.gif
 
 
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post Apr 1 2005, 05:53 PM
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[SIZE=1][FONT=Arial][COLOR=blue]i have the same exact problem! my mom thinks that i'm too young, its still love, it feels the same even when you get older, i think you should just tell upfront cuz thats what i'm thinking about doing but i'm kinda scared cuz they said if i ever get a boyfriend before i'm a junior in highschool then they're gonna send me to a boarding school in Utah or something but i think the best way is to just let them figure it out however they're going to and then when they do just don't deny it and they might not talk to you but its the best so you don't have to hold anything back when you talk to him on the phone or you're out eating dinner with him and you parents or anything[SIZE=1][FONT=Arial][COLOR=blue]
 

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AznVi3tGrl   Boyfriends....Parents....   Mar 31 2005, 08:43 PM
tmauze   i've never had that problem. the best advice i...   Mar 31 2005, 08:47 PM
electric shock   I had that problem. Acutally, it was just a guy FR...   Mar 31 2005, 09:15 PM
AznVi3tGrl   QUOTE(Spiritedfreak @ Mar 31 2005, 9:15 PM)I ...   Mar 31 2005, 09:35 PM
helllla jankyyyy   Most parents will not change their mind about this...   Mar 31 2005, 09:24 PM
yellowgurl   QUOTE(x uHoH iTs Lo x @ Mar 31 2005, 6:24 PM)...   Apr 4 2005, 09:14 PM
mzkandi   talk to them and tell them to please loosen up. bu...   Mar 31 2005, 09:25 PM
ahhishkaren   Eh, asian parents. 90% of them will tell you not t...   Mar 31 2005, 09:36 PM
aera   QUOTE(ahhishkaren @ Mar 31 2005, 10:36 PM)Eh,...   Mar 31 2005, 11:13 PM
No1_2_NoBody13   OK...so my dad dont want me having one either...he...   Mar 31 2005, 09:40 PM
No1_2_NoBody13   OK...so my dad dont want me having one either...he...   Mar 31 2005, 09:41 PM
lilshelil   OMG! ASIAN HERE! SAME THING! my parent...   Mar 31 2005, 09:50 PM
somekhmergirl   i agree with lilshelil it was in the beginning of ...   Mar 31 2005, 09:56 PM
angel_revelation   this should be in relationships... try to show yo...   Apr 1 2005, 12:11 AM
YoGrandpaIsFine   Same here. I never tell my parents. I don't kn...   Apr 1 2005, 12:24 AM
AznVi3tGrl   QUOTE(im_s0_sp0ngey @ Apr 1 2005, 12:24 AM)Sa...   Apr 1 2005, 07:11 AM
HoodieObsessed   I definitly don't have that problem. my paren...   Apr 1 2005, 03:21 PM
n3rdcuki   [SIZE=1][FONT=Arial][COLOR=blue]i have the same ex...   Apr 1 2005, 05:53 PM
AlweizN4evah   haha i totally had this problem too. ASiAN parents...   Apr 1 2005, 05:59 PM
..:loveee.NuTTii   aha-me asain-ish (I'm Guyanese Indian) and my ...   Apr 1 2005, 08:39 PM
..:loveee.NuTTii   oh shit...i double posted...sorry   Apr 1 2005, 08:39 PM
ChEeR A HOliC Xo   Tell them that you love him. And that they cant ch...   Apr 1 2005, 08:47 PM
salcha   well, you tell them that you're old enough to ...   Apr 2 2005, 02:30 AM
FracturedSilence   Wow. The only dating-related rule my parents have ...   Apr 2 2005, 03:18 AM
AznVi3tGrl   yea but my parents say that if i do something bad ...   Apr 2 2005, 11:25 PM
MissSwim   im asain too... and my parents are pretty strict....   Apr 2 2005, 11:39 PM
Laotian_Doll   why do azn parents act this way??!!?!?...   Apr 4 2005, 06:27 PM
O x LiseE x O   Honestly, I haven't had a REAL relationship wi...   Apr 4 2005, 06:31 PM
xBEBE   asian parents right? yeah, i can never do anything...   Apr 4 2005, 07:28 PM


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