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AznVi3tGrl
post Mar 31 2005, 08:43 PM
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Well I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend... But i've been goin' out with ppl since 4th grade.... And i guess my parents don't want me to have a boyfriend is b/c they think i will have a baby and end up doin' bad things... this is not true... that's not me. i know what's right from wrong and i know when goin' to far is and i need to stop. I currently have a boyfriend and he treats me great but my dad now doens't allow any boys callin' my house anymore defitnally him b/c my dad heard him say " I love you " and i got caught... I am still with this guy and i just dunno what to tell my parents it's just sad and confusing for me to keep hiding these things from him... I need a boy their to comfort me and be loved and i love him back alot but i ono how to tell my parents...

how can i get this through to my parents? so they will allow me to have boyfriends? cry.gif
 
 
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lilshelil
post Mar 31 2005, 09:50 PM
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OMG! ASIAN HERE! SAME THING! my parents were like that! they were like that when i was 14. I had a boyfriend n they found out through thier friends cuz thier friends saw me walking hand in hand w. this boy. When they asked me if its true i said yea, its true. whats the point of denying? well they found out and i was about to get sent to boarding school in england... lol so i siad to them that they can do what ever to me but im still gonna love him n we're still gonna be connected one way or another. and i promised them that im going to work even harder in school. (which i didnt). and i told them that there was nothing i can do about it. They did that silence thing for about 6 months... and i didnt c my boyfriend for 3 months no fone no online nothing. The only way we communicated was in a book that our friend helped us transfer back and forth since the fact that we're from to diffrent boroughs. Now, im 16 and still with the same boy for 2 years. And i constantly say in front of my parents how i got w. this guy n this other guy. They care, but they jus dont say anything cuz they know it wont work.

If u really love him. It wouldnt matter what happens as long as you 2 got ea. Come what may...
 

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AznVi3tGrl   Boyfriends....Parents....   Mar 31 2005, 08:43 PM
tmauze   i've never had that problem. the best advice i...   Mar 31 2005, 08:47 PM
electric shock   I had that problem. Acutally, it was just a guy FR...   Mar 31 2005, 09:15 PM
AznVi3tGrl   QUOTE(Spiritedfreak @ Mar 31 2005, 9:15 PM)I ...   Mar 31 2005, 09:35 PM
helllla jankyyyy   Most parents will not change their mind about this...   Mar 31 2005, 09:24 PM
yellowgurl   QUOTE(x uHoH iTs Lo x @ Mar 31 2005, 6:24 PM)...   Apr 4 2005, 09:14 PM
mzkandi   talk to them and tell them to please loosen up. bu...   Mar 31 2005, 09:25 PM
ahhishkaren   Eh, asian parents. 90% of them will tell you not t...   Mar 31 2005, 09:36 PM
aera   QUOTE(ahhishkaren @ Mar 31 2005, 10:36 PM)Eh,...   Mar 31 2005, 11:13 PM
No1_2_NoBody13   OK...so my dad dont want me having one either...he...   Mar 31 2005, 09:40 PM
No1_2_NoBody13   OK...so my dad dont want me having one either...he...   Mar 31 2005, 09:41 PM
lilshelil   OMG! ASIAN HERE! SAME THING! my parent...   Mar 31 2005, 09:50 PM
somekhmergirl   i agree with lilshelil it was in the beginning of ...   Mar 31 2005, 09:56 PM
angel_revelation   this should be in relationships... try to show yo...   Apr 1 2005, 12:11 AM
YoGrandpaIsFine   Same here. I never tell my parents. I don't kn...   Apr 1 2005, 12:24 AM
AznVi3tGrl   QUOTE(im_s0_sp0ngey @ Apr 1 2005, 12:24 AM)Sa...   Apr 1 2005, 07:11 AM
HoodieObsessed   I definitly don't have that problem. my paren...   Apr 1 2005, 03:21 PM
n3rdcuki   [SIZE=1][FONT=Arial][COLOR=blue]i have the same ex...   Apr 1 2005, 05:53 PM
AlweizN4evah   haha i totally had this problem too. ASiAN parents...   Apr 1 2005, 05:59 PM
..:loveee.NuTTii   aha-me asain-ish (I'm Guyanese Indian) and my ...   Apr 1 2005, 08:39 PM
..:loveee.NuTTii   oh shit...i double posted...sorry   Apr 1 2005, 08:39 PM
ChEeR A HOliC Xo   Tell them that you love him. And that they cant ch...   Apr 1 2005, 08:47 PM
salcha   well, you tell them that you're old enough to ...   Apr 2 2005, 02:30 AM
FracturedSilence   Wow. The only dating-related rule my parents have ...   Apr 2 2005, 03:18 AM
AznVi3tGrl   yea but my parents say that if i do something bad ...   Apr 2 2005, 11:25 PM
MissSwim   im asain too... and my parents are pretty strict....   Apr 2 2005, 11:39 PM
Laotian_Doll   why do azn parents act this way??!!?!?...   Apr 4 2005, 06:27 PM
O x LiseE x O   Honestly, I haven't had a REAL relationship wi...   Apr 4 2005, 06:31 PM
xBEBE   asian parents right? yeah, i can never do anything...   Apr 4 2005, 07:28 PM


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